Is it weird that I cuddle with my brother?

Question

Whenever my brother and I watch movies downstairs (usually at night) we lay in each other's arms and kind of snuggle close together on the couch. This is the only time we cuddle. We watch movies a lot, though. . .is this weird? Unusual? I'm not uncomfortable with it, but I just wanted to have your opinions. . .

By the way, I'm a girl. Does that make it less weird?

Answer 1

are you twins?? and no its not uncommon for siblings to have a close bond specially twins. as long as there is nothing sexuall there is nothing wrong. specially being such a close age you will find that your more comfortable with each other. i probably would have been like that with my older brother if he wasnt so many years older than me.

Answer 2

I think it's very sweet and natural. Love is never bad, assuming there is no kissing or touching or anything going on. There IS a difference between love and sex.

You are both very fortunate.

My brother and I were very close. I remember people teasing us because we sat together on the school bus and things like that. He was killed at 14 years old and I still cry about it 37 years later.

Being held is so wonderful and being alone really can suck. You are both blessed. PS: My children slept in my bed until they were 12 and I treasured every moment in their arms.



All you need is love. -the Beatles

Answer 3

No, i do no longer think of so. once you're quite close to on your brother, and additionally you the two are not uncomfortable with it, i might say it is not strange in any respect. in simple terms be careful the place you men are touching one yet another. i think of cuddling brings people closer jointly, and cuddling alongside with your brother may be very helpful for you the two. as long as you're no longer being sexual (touching, groping) then I say save on. And for all of those haters who think of it quite is strange and nasty. . .in simple terms beware! Jk! in simple terms kidding! yet quite, you would be much less indignant and stern approximately this. they're brother and sister, for goodness sake.

Answer 4

If you are not uncomfortable with cuddling with your brother it is okay as long as you don't have any other feelings than cuddling with your brother. If you do, don't cuddle anymore before you forget that he is your brother especially when you are in adult age. I know the feeling of cuddling. You feel very warm and feel love. Like my youngest sister she loves cuddle with me at the sofa while we are watching DVD or TV in the living room. She loves it because I I stroke her hair like when she was kid to put her to sleep.. I have six sisters and I babysit all my 2 youngest sister when they were growing. I don't feel weird cuddling my 2 sister. It's agape love I gave them.

Answer 5

I'm 13 practically and mother says that I can watch television in his room after I getready for bed. I sit on the edge of the bed. When I lean back I lean on him and we sort of cuddle. When I go into his room I always ask him first if it's all right tonight.

My nighty is like a T shirt. He likes me to come in. After a minute or so he will hug me and have me lean back on him and he ususlly puts his arm around me and sometimes he will tickle me all over. We are good friends.

I like it when he puts his hands in all different places. He touches every part of me from the top of my head to the toes and I love it. I mean he doesn't actually touch my you know I like it when he puts his hands inside my nighty. Mom wants me to watch TV with him. One time he pulled my nighty up and looked at me all over. I love my big brother.

Answer 6

No, I don't think there is anything wrong with it. You are showing love for eachother and a strong connection that most siblings can't say they have. If people make perverted comments to you about it, shrug them off. You are doing nothing wrong, and you seem to have a great friend and sibling in your brother =).

Answer 7

its normal sweety, enjoy your time with your brother while you can...quite frankly im surprised your even getting along that good at 14...what no sibling rivelry? LOL me and my sister use to cuddle a lot...I hated sleeping alone in a creapy old house..so i would cuddle up next to her at night...nothing is wrong with it...not in my eyes...so if anyone has anything negitive to say or perverted, ignore them......he will always have your back, specially when you start dating assholes!!!

Answer 8

well i didnt like it when my ex would cuddle with his 5 year old half sister to me it seemed inappropriate. However if you two are close in age and were brought up this way then I dont think theres no harm. If you two continue this while yall are 17 then its a problem.

Answer 9

It's a lttle odd! I have to tell ya I think it's a littlee weird to see cuddle and brother and sister in the same sentence. But hey whatever makes ya happy!!

Answer 10

i think yes, its a little odd to cuddle with your brother.

you're both 14? ru twins?

have u done this all your life? is is something that just sort of started?

Answer 11

the word snuggle as you use it makes it weird but if you left snuggle out it would have been legit

Answer 12

lol...well i think its just a little wierd...but hey every family is different...plus @ least u get along...i've never even met my brother...but if i knew him...i think i would always sit close to him...but not so much as cuddle...did i help??

Answer 13

No, it's fine. You're just showing that you love each other in a brotherly/sisterly way :)

Answer 14

it only gets wierd if there is sexual things occuring, sounds cuddly, would you do it around anyone??

Answer 15

I think its really weird

Answer 16

So long as it's not sexual, there's nothing odd about it.

Answer 17

I don't do it.. I'd find it wierd

but everybody's different

Answer 18

i think its a litle creepy

Answer 19

yes, very weird, do your parents know about this?