Why Does My Dad Always Shout At Me?????Please Help =(?

Question

Hye guys could you help me with this?
About half of a year ago, my dad started a tattooing buisness, ever since then he's been really tired on a night. And since then he's been taking his anger out on me, not physical but shouting at me so much =(
Whenever i come home from school he is always sat there waitiing for me to come in, and as soon as i do , he doesent ask things like, hows your day been, he just says: Orite get upstairs and dissapeer. So that makes me in a unhappy for a couple of hours, i dont know what it is, but i dont usally cry when someone shouts at me, but when he does, i cry like a baby (im a boy by the way)
He just thinks of anything to shout at me for, take exaple 20 miniutes ago: I was getting up at around 2:15pm, because im a really heavy sleeper, and my mom has been telling me over and over again that i need to go out because its halloween tomoro and i need someone to go around my village with me, so i thought i would do this for my mom, becease she's been nice to me usally, but whenever she's near my dad, she will always side with him and shout at me aswell, even though she knows its pointless.
Anyway i went out to look for someone who would actually come out, but ALL my friends, wasent in or wasent coming out, so i couldent ask them, i knew i was gonna get shouted at by my dad, so i slowly walked home,
When i got back, he was sitting there waiting again, he then said, what are YOU doing back?!, i said that none of my firends were coming out or were out shopping (which they all were) and my dad dident belive me and guess what?, he shouted at me, and i dropped my head and started to cry (and whenever i do this, ohh thats his fun for the rest of the day, taking the mick out of me) anyway, he was shouting at me, and halfway through my mom came through and shouted to me: "WHAT HAVE YOU DONE NOW?" so that meant my mom had sided with him straight away.
When they finished, they sent me to my room.
Now im sat here typing this, alone in my house (they went to shop) and im dreading when he's next gonna shout at me.
So please can someone help me, on ways for him to like me again, or ways to stop him shouting at least.
Thanks i really appreciate you reading this message and i hope you can help =)

Answer 1

It seems like your dad is very immature and childish. and the sound of your mother angers me. A mother who doesn't defend her own child, but alongside with her husband yells at their child. They must not know parenting. You should advise someone of this. Tell someone. If it keeps going on like this your going to lose confidence in yourself. Your parents should never yell at you. When my dad disciplined me, he never yelled no matter how much i yelled. he just simply said what he had to say quietly. Silence speaker louder than words. But tell someone about your dad and how you want help. And when it happens again COMPLETELY IGNORE HIM. pretend that everytime he speaks theres no words. Just smile at him. or walk into your room.

Answer 2

Well I have got 2 answers for you a violent one and a kind one. Number 1 is the kind one.

1. Sit your parents now like you have been told tell them that when they shout at you it makes you feel like your in hell try to talk them out of this shouting which they have not need for and see what happens.



2. if you have tried that and it just don't work then shout back at them call the police if they are starting to punch you and punch them back! Or throw things at them i.e. chairs, tables (that will get you into prison so don't do that but do call the police if there punching you).

I hope I have helped.

Answer 3

Shout At Me

Answer 4

Obviously there is something else bothering your parents and all they know to do is to take it out on the one person they should NOT be shouting at. They both seem to need psychiatric treatment for anger management issues. If I were in your place, when they shouted at me I would ask "What have I done that causes you to shout at me about everything?" Then I would tell them that it is emotional abuse and it hurts more than you can explain.



Honey, there is absolutely NOTHING you can do to make that jerk like you again, he is hateful. You need to talk to your school guidance counselor about this problem and ask him/her to call your parents in and talk to them about how it is affecting you. Your father seems to be a very angry man and may explode into rage and hit you. If it happens, call the Police immediately and don't be afraid because it will only get worse if he gets away with it. You deserve to be treated with love and respect and the police can help you.

Answer 5

Aaw this is sweet in a way :')

I'm so glad you had the courage to write this. I'm sure your Dad loves you to PIECES. He's just having a hard time at the moment but he shouldn't be taking it out on you. This will take alot more courage but sit them both down and tell them how your feeling. Tell them your feeling kind of upset because it seems like their always shouting at you. & My step dad kicks me and he once threw me at the wall and that makes me upset too. But you got to get through these things and it's hard. It's very hard. My mum always takes sides with him aswell ):

How old are you btw :)?

Hope I helped. Good luck. They should understand :).

Answer 6

awhh...

Do you have any relatives? aunts uncles, granpas. you could go to them and have a chat about it.

Im from england, so this might not help but you could try some worry sharin websites, or call one of those support numbers. maybe you could meet someone new, like a friend to talk about it with.

Or you could always just sit your mum down and ask her why she goes along with him, and tell her how sad you are. make him feel bad

hope it helped, bye =]

Answer 7

Your such a crybaby. Why don't you explain it to them and ask them why the hell are they shouting at you. And if your mother seems to be ENJOYING what your father is doing to you, asked her if something is wrong with her since mothers are the one who comforts their children when they are being shouted at ( over-protective ) . Don't be afraid if they hurt you or something. Your entering a REBELLIOUS stage, if you don't talk back they'll never understand you and they'll shout at you more since you're being a crybaby instead of fighting back.

Answer 8

punch him