My Dad has been having ago at me all day, just because of a lost/missing effin' key!?

Question

l had the key because l opened the door when l went in but after, we couldn't find it at all. l looked everywhere in the house and even in my bag and it is nowhere to be seen. There's only me and Dad living together so nobody could of took it. He has been having ago at me all day about it and l just said 'lt's only a key, we can just get another one' (meaning we can copy his spare key so it can be mine) and he just felt all sorry saying 'l am past caring now'. Why the hell does he have to be so childish and make me feel guilty about everything!? :@

Thanks.
x

Answer 1

hiya, it not just a case of a lost key.if say some one found it very near to your house,then they know it unlocks a front door.they could steal lots of stuff out of your house.so that is why your dad is angry.i would be the same,as now he will have to change his door lock,and they are not cheap to buy.x

Answer 2

I'm not sure what age you are but I'm 21, I don't even live at home anymore and when I go to visit I still get into trouble for not putting my plate away etc, even though I am just being generally forgetful. He's just frustrated because you misplaced it and he sees it as you being careless with something that's quite important. From personal experience DON'T answer back even if you think he is being unreasonable, just bite your tongue and say sorry for being so careless, it makes things soo much easier in the long run and he'll calm down quicker. There's no point in the both of you being in moods with each other especially as there is only the two of you. Take a wee while to calm down then go back say your sorry and that you'll either pay for the replacement or do some house work to pay for it. He'll appreciate that you've realised it was important to him and your taking it seriously.

Anyhoo, hope it helps! Byee x x

Answer 3

Did you check the door?Maybe you left it IN the door. As for your father, try and be patient with him, after all it is his house and he has a right to want to keep it secure. Make an effort to find the key, as it will save him the effort of copying it and it will make him feel more secure knowing that all the keys are accounted for.

He is letting you stay there while you go to college, right? So try and make an effort to follow the rules and be sensitive to his feelings. If you feel he is being childish, swallow that feeling and don't let it get you down. Of course you have a right to feel anyway you want to, but try and be "the adult" about it. Good Luck!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Did you look between the couch cushion, did you look on top of the TV, Dresser, Table.

those cost money to replace, if someone nicked it, you may need to replace the door nub and a new key. that cost money. the key can't just grow legs and started walking.

Answer 6

My father is exactly the same. Rise above him and ignore him until he comes around like mine does. I get called this and that for not putting the hoover over. I hate it, he goes a wall if he finds a clip or hair piece on the floor, i know how you feel, try not to worry about it:)xx

Answer 7

He's probably worried someone has nicked it and could get into the house. But stop feeling sorry for yourself, he has every right to complain!

Answer 8

How dare you speak to your father like that?!