This is totally unfair!!! PLEASE HELP ME! Jealous of my sister!?

Question

My older sister just turned 17, and she got her first boyfriend and they've been dating for 3 months. And she is on her highschool cheerleading team. And she just got a car, and it's a baby blue beetle bug. And she gets to go see rated R movies. And I'm 14, and I've never had a boyfriend. And I tried out for my middle school cheer team and didn't make it. And she's going to see Ths Ugly Truth tommorow, since she can finally see rated Rs. And she knows how much I want to see it. I always have to wait till rated Rs come out onto DVD like Final Destination and Sweeney Todd. I'm really jealous of her, and it's driving me crazy. She brags about how she gets to see Rated R movies. And I'm getting really depressed. We were going to see a movie tommorow, but instead she cancels it and decides to go see The Ugly Truth knowing Im 14 and to young and she knows how bad I want to see it.

Answer 1

There is not much you can do right now. I understand how you want to be able to do everything you sister does. She is not being very mature throwing it in your face that she can do things you can't.

Just wait your turn. You will get old enough far sooner than you think.

14 can be a really fun age.

Answer 2

Girl, do you listen to yourself? honestly, she's got taxes and jobs and kids to worry about now that she's an adult. enjoy being a teenager while it lasts. the boyfriend thing is unfair is suppose, like how are you meant to grow up and get experience with guys when you aren't allowed a boyfriend. you could always discuss that with your parents. as for the car, get over it, it's just a car. and just practice more for the cheerleading team. there's a reason you didn't get on it, it's not just your sister telling them all not to let you on the team. if she brags about it, ignore her or tell her how pathetic she is being. i have an old sister, and she annoys the hell out of me, but now 25 and is already looking like an old lady because she had two kids and decides to eat Chinese food non-stop. I love her and i help her out with loads of stuff now (: and yeah, she has a house, and a car, and gets to see 18s movies. but damn, it feels good to be a teenager and not have to worry about all the stuff she does:L

Answer 3

She knows it bugs you and shes picking on you. Older sisters always have to seem to have everything their way or they are better or whatever. She might be jealous of you in some ways so she has to pick on you where she knows it hurts. She is older and has the stress of being on the cheer team and having a boyfriend is usually a rollercoaster and she probably thinks that you are young and carefree. So just ignore her its not worth it and she probably loves how you react. You stop reacting she will stop picking trust me I am the youngest out of 4!

Answer 4

First off, you shouldn't be jealous of anybodyy;its a ten commandment.



And seconddd, dis is so very funny causee..you actin like you cant try harder to achieve tha things you want. Instead of being jealous of her n her boyfriend GO GET YOU A MAN! Come on na! Im 14 i got a boyfriend!! Im on my high school's VARSITY cheerleading team!! So go practice and better yourself so next yearr you cannn make it! And omg guh just go watched a r rated movie! You act like its sum big..lol. Lord..

Answer 5

im 20, youll spend the next 10 years of your life thinking, I cant wait until im going to be older, so i can do more stuff. The only problem with it, the more stuff you can do, the more stuff your responsible for. Harder homework, getting a job, when you get a car you have to drive people and get groceries for your mom etc.

Answer 6

I've been there, trust me. Not only that, I have two sisters I'm jealous of. Different reasons though. My advice is to join a club in school and try to make your own friends and do your own thing to distract you.

Answer 7

just buy a pg rated ticket and walk through the r rated moving doors instead of the pg ice age shitt that you bought a ticket for. they only check the tickets at the stand not at the movie doors. atleast its like that in canada. so all us canadians just sneak in like i was just explaining

Answer 8

Buy a ticket to another movie, then go into the other movie when the ppl aren't looking.

Answer 9

SLOW DOWN!! you will get there--trust me, its not all its cracked up to be. I understand that you're jealous but you will get the same treatment in a couple of years. Dont let it ruin your life now