Question:
Found nude pictures of me in my sons room!?
2015-05-12 17:06:08 UTC
I am a homemaker and I was clearning up my 18 year old son's room when I moved his matress and discovered and envelope. In the envelope I discoved pictures of me..nude pictures. It is as if my son has been spying on my in the shower, the bathroom and my room. In some I was topless..some was of my butt and some was everything!I am not sure what to do. I am pretty sexualy active but I have not had anything like this before where it dealt with my own son.Any advice? Should just let it go? Should I confront him?
465 answers:
Marjorie
2016-07-24 23:14:43 UTC
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2015-05-14 13:28:53 UTC
Look out for him - see if you can catch him taking pictures while you shower or remove your clothes at any point in the house.

But then again, who said it was his? Your wife or someone else could have planted the evidence in his room to frame him, or maybe these pictures were from a super long time ago and no one remembers them and they ended up there.

For the meantime, don't do anything. Until you're 95% sure your son really took these pictures and left them in his room, you should just try to be more attentive and see if you notice. Does your son have a personal camera or a phone, and if so, how did he get these photos into the envelope?

When you really think it was him, you can show him the pictures. Watch his reaction - does he look away, act surprised, or freak out for a second? Look for signs of lying and nervousness.

Tell him it's okay if he really took the pictures - the worst you'd do is ground him for a while, right? Or talk to him about this kinda thing and lecture him for an hour. :P

Good luck!
?
2015-05-16 12:10:53 UTC
Look out for him - see if you can catch him taking pictures while you shower or remove your clothes at any point in the house.

But then again, who said it was his? Your wife or someone else could have planted the evidence in his room to frame him, or maybe these pictures were from a super long time ago and no one remembers them and they ended up there. There may be some way that he defends himself in conversation that 'lets him off the hook' and allows him to discount the importance of how wrong this is. He may get away with that kind of defense usually but a therapist would pick up on it and sense what he is doing.



For the meantime, don't do anything. Until you're 95% sure your son really took these pictures and left them in his room, you should just try to be more attentive and see if you notice. Does your son have a personal camera or a phone, and if so, how did he get these photos into the envelope?
?
2015-05-19 14:47:53 UTC
I don't believe what you people are saying, he's got ******* nude pictures of his own mom! What kind of creep does that?!

You can't fully judge the situation without knowing the him and whatever he might have gone through, but I say you sit him down, tell him you found the pictures, and ask what everything's all about. He'll probably feel uncomfortable, and he should, that's just wrong. Being comforting towards him will only put mixed messages in his head; find out why he did it and try to get him some help.

Be more discreet and careful when you are taking showers etc....

I don't know what's the situation with his dad, but if he's still alive it'll be best if he's the one to talk to him about it.

Yea, this definetly needs to be dealt with.
dtheseed
2015-05-17 19:57:46 UTC
I cant believe all the idiots here who don't read the question. Dear God the iq on this world is frightening. Look maybe it wouldn't be good to blow it out of proportion, to me the most serious issue is respect, it is not respectful to keep nude pictures of someone, it is just plain disrespectful. If its some bimbo no one knows who makes a living doing nude shots that's bad enough, but it is entirely a different arena when it is someone you know, and that arena gets a little shakier when its a member of your family, and of course its not good for a son to have pictures of his mother. Maybe you need to be more discrete about your being so sexually active around your sons? Just a suggestion you are the one who mentioned it. Kids really don't need to know what there parents do, I would not have wanted to see my mother with a different man spending the night or whatever all the time. Be very careful here, he has his whole life ahead of him. I am going to say a prayer that everything works out for you, it is so hard to be a mother in these horrible times, I am not trying to be unsympathetic I just think this might be serious.
2015-05-15 19:03:18 UTC
" I am pretty sexualy active but I have not had anything like this before.." - Does that mean you are considering incest?

This seems so fake, which 18 yr old kid would have PRINTED nude images of his parent in an ENVELOPE under the mattress nowadays... with all the digital technology out there (camera cell phones,etc) - the story just doesnt fit the time and era seems like something that wud be more likely back in the day or a fantasy of a parent who grew up before this digital age. BUT if he is not uptodate with digital technology how can he take photos of u in the show without u knowing or hearing a sound or seeing the flash, i guess there might be cameras out there to do that but in the shower tho, doesnt add up. What angle, where was the camera aiming from lol very creepy if u made this story up .

Also wondered if he had any of his friends over who was able to set up spy cam then tried to blackmail him hence the picture in an ENVELOPE- but if it was from blackmail then he wud have destroyed them after not save them under a mattress so thats not what happened.

U mentioned there were topless pix so i assume you are the mother but if u are the father then he just wants to see what his body might look like in the future.

If this is real then please confront him, if he is practicing spying at home then it can grow into something evil and he may find other victims.
Raja
2015-05-13 06:34:07 UTC
Just because you came across an enevelope containing nude pictures of yours in your son's room under the mattress how can you positively say that those photos were taken by him ?.What evidence you have to prove that he is the culprit . Keep the pictures with you and observe his reaction . If he is innocent he will remain calm and quite . If he is guilty he will be reluctant to face you . If he has incest tendency he will try to repeat taking some more nude pictures.At this juncture you can confront him and convince him that he is up to a dirty game. Warn him that you will bring this to the notice of his Dad if he does not apologize and give up the dirty habit. It is important that you should be concerned of your own privacy especially when you have a grown up son who could get tempted on seeing female nudity.
sophieb
2015-05-15 07:26:17 UTC
You need to have a chat with your son. Tell him you found photos in his room, do not address the nudity but simply say that you want the photos NOW from him (wait till he gets them) and ask for any negatives or copies from his computer and tell him you want them deleted....and the reason is that what he did was illegal and you could give him a record that would ruin him for life, and put him in jail, and that you'd rather not do that but what he's doing has started him on the wrong way to live his life. If you are a religious or spiritual type person then you need to tell him he needs to talk with the minister/priest promptly and to get rid of his camera that's taking the pictures as that's leading him down the wrong way in life. Remind him that you love him as a parent and are concerned for his welfare. Tell him if he's taken pictures of others as well then for sure it's jailtime for him. Go see his computer and if he won't show you what's on it then confiscate it and take it to a tech that will show you what nudity IS on his computer. This kind of thing could get him hooked. He may or may not see you in the nudity, he may just be curious, shy, backward, thinks that whatever he does is private. Explain to him that there is NO PRIVACY in this world in that he needs to change his ways or he's going to get hurt. By the way, demand an apology and a promise. Otherwise it's time for a therapist for him.
Towanda
2015-05-14 19:36:37 UTC
That's more than a little creepy. I would think over carefully what I was going to say to him and then have a go at it. There is something a bit wrong with your son and I would get him in professional counseling. It reminds me of an episode in high school and as I went up a flight of steps, someone pulled my skirt up and when I turned around a guy I didn't know was laughing and then I saw his two buddies crouched down and the bottom of the stairs so they could get a good view. I was a fattie in high school and I guess this guy thought he could pick on me but I tried to kick him down the flight of stairs. The next day I got called into the office and his parents called the school and said I tried to kick him down the stairs...which was true. But they didn't understand what their creep of a son had done. I told the counselors and they didn't want to go there. I wish I had done more but I let it go. I should have told them if I heard of these guys bothering another girl they thought would let it go I would have someone change their way of thinking for them...for all three and then I wish I had called my parents and the police. I think about it every so often and wonder if this kid ended up raping someone because he certainly had no respect for females. I put your son in that class and he doesn't think or have respect for you and what he is doing is wrong. I wonder if you just talk to him if that will straighten him out. I doubt it and think you need professional help. It may embarrass him but he could get a lot worse. Good luck to you.
kathyw
2015-05-16 10:33:10 UTC
I would take him to a therapist with you. Then, in the safety of the therapist's office, with the third-party present, bring up the discovery of the photos. Listen to the explanation that he gives to you in the presence of the therapist. Tell him exactly how violated you feel - tell him in the presence of the therapist. And then: let the discussion follow from there. And keep going to the therapist until you are satisfied that he understands how wrong that is to have those photos.



In any other type of situation, I would sit down and confront the boy alone and hear his story. But this is diffrerent: he needs to know why it is wrong to look at pictures of his naked mother.



There may be some way that he defends himself in conversation that 'lets him off the hook' and allows him to discount the importance of how wrong this is. He may get away with that kind of defense usually but a therapist would pick up on it and sense what he is doing.



He may make excuses, for example, and blame it all on someone else. In a therapist's office, you can challenge that and ask if you can bring that person into the next therapist's appointment and see what he says. It should not be something he can make up lies about and hope you back down. It's a terrible thing to have those photos, no matter how they were obtained, and hang on to them.



Out of respect for you, they would have been shredded or burned. He should never want those photos to exist.
2016-11-03 08:51:17 UTC
Mother And Son Nude Pictures
Karina
2015-05-19 13:44:03 UTC
I wouldn't confront him directly. Look out for him when u are in the shower and in your room. Also are the pics recent or were all of them taken a while ago? I would just put them back and look out. When/if he takes more pics then I would confront him. He might pretend he wasn't doing iot and run or walk away from the room but just reason with him and say do u have any more or why are u taking these? He might have a reason for it but is still not acceptable. Just try reasoning with him and maybe say this is not right and he should not be doing this. If he still doesn't listen, then u can take something away and punish him. Just make sure that u feel safe and are comfortable with your safety and privacy. Hope I helped!
Vortex
2015-05-13 20:29:46 UTC
Obviously your son has a problem since the pictures he took are of his own mother. That is way different than taking pictures of a stranger. He could be so embarrassed at you finding them that he could harm himself. I don't have an answer but I do suggest you talk to a therapist or even a psychiatrist as to what you should do. I am sure you love your son and only want the best for him. I would not just confront him unless an expert advised it. Good Luck!
Marshhawk
2015-05-15 04:51:13 UTC
So who else has access to your son's room and the places to take nude photos of you?

You need to figure when the pictures were taken. Some cameras have a time stamp on them and the date and times are transferred to the picture.

You might want to try to find the camera . It might be hidden somewhere inside of the house. Then go from there.

Since you are at home, you could pay a PI to ( legally) toss the place when everyone else is not there.
Lily
2015-05-13 21:31:36 UTC
Catching an interesting glimpse of you by accident once in a while might be titillating, but taking photos is preconceived. You wouldn't even want a b/f doing that without your consent. Do you leave your doors open for him to gain access and why can't you hear him? Something doesn't add up. In any case, these photos could be all over the internet. He's entering young adulthood and legally responsible for his actions. Why should he be treated like a fragile, naughty young boy at home, who doesn't have to answer for his actions? This is an invasion of privacy and a premeditated activity. Don't put him on the defensive, but be straightforward. "I noticed the photos. What's up" Simple, casual & to the point. Counseling may be a course to follow as well. If he resents you, this could make him feel in control. Or, if he's fascinated with your sexually it needs to be redirected appropriately.
Rayvan
2015-05-15 02:22:29 UTC
A lot of answers have already been given, so I will keep this short.



If you've found an envelope with printed pictures of you in your sons room then I would say the chances are that these pictures were not his, but that someone planted them for you to find.



Why? well these days most kids/teenagers keep all their stuff on their phones/tablets/computers whatever device that is permanently attached to their hand. They don't tend to print hard copies because it is too difficult to carry around or being discovered.



So ask yourself who would want you son to get into trouble for this? in whose interest is it if you find them and confront him about the pictures
2015-05-17 20:28:22 UTC
Show it to your Husband and tell him where you found it.

Kids like this nowadays are hard to get through especially when your the mother, father on the other hand will give them a pep talk especially for SONS.

You just found out that your son is probably sexually attracted to you! His own mother!

What's next? Is he gonna start touching our lady parts or even raping you?

My point is show it to your husband and I'm sure he'll take care of it.

If he doesn't then call some other family members or dearest friends and have a 3 to 5 group talk with him.
Howard
2015-05-15 07:46:58 UTC
First off - don't get over excited about it (no pun intended) Actually for boys to have fantasies about their mothers is not as uncommon as you might think.



If you talk to a psychologist they will tell you that, but you failed to mention his age which could be of some importance in the response but I assume he may be a boy who has recently reached puberty - say in his early teens and does not have an active sex life. He'll out grow this phase -however the question is what do you want to do with the photos? He is using them to mastrubate with them in private - if you are OK with that, then just let it go. If you're very uncomfortable with that, then maybe you might want to take the pictures, not say anything and let him come to you - if he is so inclined, to ask. I would think he would be too embarrassed to do that but if he does, time to have a talk about birds & bees, what is considered natural fantasy, and how to separate the two in real life.



You are the only one who can answer which course to take. Good luck.
edie
2015-05-14 09:42:16 UTC
are you and your son the only ones in the house? is there a husband or boyfriend living with you. what ever, you need to confront him about this, because a son has no business taking nude pictures of his mother. I wouldn't let this go if I were you. if you do you don't know what he will do with the pictures. plus if he is looking at the pictures all the time he has a problem. also you need to find out how he is getting the pictures taken.
great knight
2015-05-15 13:25:00 UTC
Your son wants you bad. He wants you to be his woman over and over. So what are you asking? Should you embarass him? Think should get rid of them unless you are planning to let him! At very least get rid of them. You know why he has them. He wants you. Don't do anything with him, no matter how easy it would be. No matter how much he begs for it! Get rid of pictures then decide, could it be plant? If not, then tell him taking pictures is bad. No matter how hot you may be. Is he allowed to talk to girls? Do you keep him locked up? If you're the only woman he ever sees, maybe that's all it is? Only you know the answer. But you can't have son doing that stuff anymore. Take away camera phone.
2015-05-13 05:59:48 UTC
Maybe it was a dare from his friend? Maybe your husband hid it there? Maybe he was trying to prank you? Maybe he was naughty and wanted to have some fun? Maybe he was set up? Maybe he is really perverted? Or...maybe it really was incestuous feelings? Honestly this is very strange.



Burn the pics. Don't confront him, but give him a cold shoulder or something. Be stricter and colder to him. He'll feel guilty, hopefully, and wouldn't do it again.



OR



Use a black marker and color on those parts of the body. Or use something like blood to cover them. Make it look creepy. Hopefully it could freak him out.



Or do both.



But confronting him might make it worse. It really depends on his personality though. Do you remember when you last scold him? Was a full of the teenage delinquent air and say things like 'ugh mom stop, I know, I know, shut up. ' Or did he cry a bit and said sorry (sincerely)? If he is the latter kind, of course you should confront him, in perhaps a motherly and kindly way (bring his grandmother along to make it more effective). But if he is not like that, better use the cold shoulder/black marker way.
2015-05-15 03:34:46 UTC
If your son is 18, and if he did take or was involved in the taking of those photos then indeed there is a problem. I assume you are at least 34 years old.



If it was a porn magazine - no problem - we all remember those teen years and not quite being able to get the girl of our dreams into bed, thus needing some relief of some sort.



But "mummy porn" - that is worrying, and you should think carefully about what to do. Do not be too hasty, ponder carefully, but do not put off action for long. Probably you need to consult a professional, who will almost certainly want to talk to your son. You need face to face support, so do find someone local to talk to. Do not confront him until you have the support in place.
Michelle
2015-05-14 09:20:40 UTC
Is it at all possible that your son didn't take these pictures? You admitted that you were sexually active. Perhaps these are pictures that were taken without your knowledge by someone you were/are sleeping with and your son found them. He may have stuffed them under his mattress to save you from finding them and keep you from the embarrassment. However, this is not something you let go. Tell him you need to talk to him and let him know that you found them and ask why he has them. If he admits to taking them, then the best course of action is counseling of some type. Perhaps he has been exposed to your sexual activity more than you realize and this could be a product of that if he did, in fact, take the pictures. The most important thing is to let him know that he's loved and help is available if he needs it.



If he found them taken by someone else without your knowledge and was trying to protect you from seeing them, then you can explain to him that, while you understand he was trying to save your feelings, it isn't his job to protect you from the consequences of your own, or another adult's actions.



Good luck to you.
biogardener
2015-05-17 14:05:00 UTC
It makes no difference who took the picture. It is normal for a son to have photos of his mom, but not nude ones. There is something wrong with his delight in having those pictures. I strongly suspect that he lacks a positive father figure in his life who would be an example to him.



Better have a long talk with him.
?
2015-05-13 23:13:14 UTC
Ask your son in a calm voice to sit down.

Tell your kid you found photos.

What's going on here?

Let him talk.

Sounds like if you stop the problem before it gets out of hand he will be ok. Get the kid to some counseling.

Otherwise you will have a serial peeping tom (which is punishable by jail) or as it gets worse he will start acting on the fantasies and will start raping, etc. That will land him in prison. You really do not want him in there.
?
2015-05-13 19:21:04 UTC
PLEASE READ THE WHOLE THING!!!! If I were you I would say something. I wouldn't embarrass him in anyway but he needs to know you know. If you keep it a secret then this will continue and he'll find even more clever ways to spy on you. If he was younger like 13 or 14 I would say let it go since having fantasies about mom when you're going thru puberty is actually quite normal. When I was 12 and 13 I used to look at my mom getting dressed since I was curious. Of course that all stopped when I hit around 14-15 and even the thought of my mom grosses me out ewwww. Anyhow I would confront him about it with tough love but an emphasis on the love. Let him know you know and that you're angry about it but that you love him. He might have an addiction to porn as well that you might not know about. This may surprise you but a lot of these fantasies come from porn. You'd be amazed at how many incest porn videos are out there. What people don't understand is that porn is fake and these people aren't related even in the slightest function (they may be boyfriend and girlfriend but they aren't blood relatives) I know so many people that watch porn and think that the video marked "mommy bangs son and son's sister" are of real families. I would talk to him and see if maybe he has an addiction to porn and maybe that's where he's getting this. I would also maybe make an appointment with a psychiatrist or a professional councilor. Porn can destroy your life. It's normal and okay in small doses but in large quantities and especially an addiction it's bad for you. It almost ruined David Duchovny's life. (David Duchovny is well known as Fox Mulder from the X Files)
Chloe
2015-05-15 09:50:59 UTC
Be real careful with this. This is the type of thing that can brand a guy as a sex offender for life. I would be pissed, I would be upset, I would be livid. But, I'd probably shred the pictures, say nothing but make sure that my private life becomes more private. I would also keep a close eye on my son for other unhealthy behaviors that he may exhibit in the future. This is not a minor thing but tread very carefully with this.
kaisar
2015-05-14 04:27:03 UTC
Just because you came across an enevelope containing nude pictures of yours in your son's room under the mattress how can you positively say that those photos were taken by him ?.What evidence you have to prove that he is the culprit . Keep the pictures with you and observe his reaction . If he is innocent he will remain calm and quite .
Taking on the Crazy Tea Baggers!
2015-05-13 19:12:18 UTC
First of all, you should never allow your son to take naked pictures of you. Let's start there. How did the camera get in there? Are you the only one getting there naked pictures taken? Does this disgust you or turn you on? Are there other places in your house he is taking naked pictures of you or someone else? If so, is there any sexual activity inside your home of you or others? Could he be uploading any of these pictures online? If so, could law enforcement be watching your naked picture posts or neighbor kids be viewing them?... If so, could those kids parents find out and want to sue your family for any wealth you have?... If I was you, I would say something very soon.
?
2015-05-13 20:28:06 UTC
Just what facts you must prove he is the perpetrator. Keep your images together with you and also see his or her effect. When he or she is not guilty he will probably continue to be peaceful and also pretty. When he or she is bad he will probably end up being unwilling to take care of an individual. When he's incest inclination he will probably make an effort to do it again taking some a lot more bare images. With this juncture it is possible to face the dog and also encourage the dog which he is about a filthy online game. Advise the dog that you deliver this specific for the discover regarding his or her Daddy when he or she would not excuse and present the filthy behavior.
Krıllın
2015-05-15 18:16:00 UTC
First things first,



* Take the envelope of the pictures and locate the address / company that printed them out..

- Go to the shops

* But then again that can be done by DIY third party home kits

- Find the evidence of cameras

* Analyse the pictures on where they were taken and on what angles

- Check out the location and marks of the areas

* Bring this back to the suspects you have a list of and the time of day they're not usually around.

- Timetable : ring up places of work / school

* If they fit in your specific times then you can narrow it down to a few suspects

- Bam!

* Check to see who has been going in and out of your sons room lately?

- Perhaps one of his friends?

* Last thing to do is vetting.



* It will be a tiring job but you will also have to keep it on the low as if you are continuing your normal routine.



* And I am all out of ideas.. haaha



My Final Answer:

psttt.. He is probably selling them in exchange for some cash to buy a sweet ride or something
2015-05-12 20:37:30 UTC
I believe that your son is beyond a pervert and a creep. You should find an excuse to get him to seek professional counseling without mentioning this problem to him in the first place since I believe that would really bring some deep shame out of him. I don't understand how he is able to take those pictures if you are showering inside of a bathroom with the door closed, it does not make any sense to me. I don't that a teenage boy no matter how raging his hormones are would think about jacking off to pictures of his mom naked, I believe that he would run to the alternative of pornography in this situation.
F
2015-05-18 07:32:27 UTC
What exactly are you worried about with it?

Is it you think he may be sexually attracted to you and may want some sexual attention from you?

Is it you think he may be selling them on the Internet for money?

Or is it that you think he may have them to bribe you with?

If I were you I would sit him down and talk to him about it. Ask him what it's about. If it's either of the later two then you probably have a serious problem that needs to be addressed. If it's the first one and you have similar feelings then maybe act on them a little bit and see what happens. If you don't like the thought of giving your son a BJ then tell him it's okay to have those fantasies but that's all they will ever be.
Chaunny
2015-05-15 12:42:02 UTC
Found nude sons in my pictures room!?
?
2015-05-16 15:31:59 UTC
Pretty strange. I'd say he wants to see a live woman naked, but maybe doesn't have the opportunity out in his life. You are home, and it's accessible. Makes it easy.



Maybe he printed the pics because he doesn't have the same access to the digital format. Strange to think that in this digital age, but maybe in your house you don't have a computer, maybe he doesn't have a phone or something. We don't know that part.



Someone else isn't going to take these pics and put them under your son's bed, as another commenter suggested.



I'd ask a psychologist, that really is the best way to get the real answer. He will feel completely humiliated if you talk to him.



Just my guess.
Caleb
2015-05-16 09:46:32 UTC
Well I'm 17 and i can tell that he most likely know about them I don't know how someone could put them under his bed and he never know about it considering that you found them so easy. Think back have you ever cought him looking at you to long it sounds like it's time for him to ether pay ret or move out I know I'm young but I could never imagine this happening to me I mean your his mother for crying out loud I know your prolly still in shock I know I would be if I found something like that. He dam sure needs therapy. Just make sure all the blinds in your room are closed make sure when ever you go in your room you lock the door im so sorry this happend I agree that you should take them and see his reaction you prolly need to tell his dad and if it is true you both need to be there when you have that talk. This was so shocking to even read I mean this is beond wrong im so sorry for you.
beautemortelie
2015-05-12 19:57:50 UTC
Okay, wow. Ignore Christopher.



For one, in some occasions it's okay to live and let live ... like, perhaps, if you catch porn magazines under his mattress. You could let that go.



However, these pictures are certainly intrusive on your privacy and hopefully there is no incestuous interest. You need to tell him it's inappropriate and not to do it again, do not "save him the humiliation" ... he's 18 and needs the lesson.



Honestly, lord only knows what he intends to do with nude images of his mother. I can't think of a single good thing that results from that.
2015-05-14 11:50:19 UTC
This is not right in so many ways. 1, he is your son and that is very sick that your son have a sexual attraction to you and your body. 2, that is very disrespectful of him to take pics of you while your naked. He didn't ask your permission. And 3, He shouldn't be spying on you. He should not be seeing what your doing. Your son is very nosy. You need to talk to your son about this. If he does not listen or does not understand then, kick him out of the house. Don't listen these people that are saying, "this is normal". The ones that are saying it are either trolling or crazy.
Elindriel
2015-05-14 02:52:50 UTC
This is totally not acceptable. You seriously need to have a talk with your kid about these photos and why he felt the need. Definitely confiscate them then confront them, and ask him if they where posted anywhere online, then explain that his actions are actually illegal and if he does it again he can be turned over to the police. Personally, I'd also warn the guy to move to be honest. You don't want someone with those idea already in his his head to continue living with you. He's already violated your privacy once, and its likely to continue and possibly even escalate. The boy needs some counseling.



Then put some locks on the bathroom and bedroom doors and cover all the windows thoroughly, as well as search for hidden cameras in those two rooms and use the angle of the camers to judge where to look.
Asif
2015-05-17 12:26:28 UTC
Found nude sons in my pictures room!?
Margaret
2015-05-13 21:05:27 UTC
First I find it very strange that your son is able to take nude photos of you.Do you walk around naked ,leave doors open seems very weird to me.. If not I would say your son has a serious problem that he would want to do this kind of thing..Your son needs a lot of help.YOU MOST CERTAINLY NEED TO speak to your son and get him help as well.. Maybe you should also address how your beha.viour is At home..
Zoe
2015-05-13 21:08:23 UTC
OK I'll be honest: thats a bit creepy. But he's your son. You should be able to confront him if needed. Things like this happen. Especially during puberty. He may get a bit annoyed at the violation of privacy but so would alot of teens. Start off by apologizing for the invasion and ease into it. See what he has to say and come to a reasonable conclusion.
Grace
2015-05-13 21:16:07 UTC
If you do confront him he'll get really uncomfortable. 18 is an age where many kids gets stuck on porn and that's ok because probably more than half of 18 year olds are having sex right now or watching porn, trust me. It's kinda creepy that your son is taking nudes of YOU. Maybe it would make sense if it was like another girl but that's just creepy. Obviously he's just curious and will eventually get over it. But I recommend you to not talk about it.
?
2015-05-14 03:24:31 UTC
Just how did that make you feel?

Has he ever made any joking remarks sexually?

Or do you do it in front of him?

Did he capture you doing anything on camera?

What is it, then, Oedipus? ?

You better have him at the psychiatrist or the preacher when

confronting him.

Doctors and nurses will want to drug him and

play pussyfoot.

You being his parent makes it your responsibility.

If he's not a closet psycho, you could confront him.

But the best clinical advice says talk it over with a P.H.D psychiatrist

He could have done this?

Or he came by someone elses handiwork.

We cannot say.
2015-05-16 10:38:20 UTC
FORGET EVERY SOCIAL CONSTRUCT YOU HAVE EVER KNOWN.



Biologically speaking it takes some extreme hormones to drive something like this. Your son must be incredibly horny at an age of adolescence.



This isnt unheard of. Seriously.



If it were my son, i wouldnt want him scarred for life with sexual assault charges.



I'd buy him a hooker and take your relationship to the next level.



Tell him you know, but that you won't do anything providing he stops it.



And in the meantime . . . . heres a hooker to ****.



Some family's treat sex and nakedness as an open thing and natural.
Shivesh
2015-05-15 04:41:43 UTC
You definitely must be hot and sexy. Well ! you can do one thing, you can talk to your husband and then together along with your husband talk to your son and tell him what is wrong and what is right. Suggest him to make a girlfriend and fall in love with someone. Most importantly cut his money supplies and do not let him free just try to keep him busy as much as possible. Because this is the age when kids are curious to experiment their sexuality and sometimes fell in to a well of sin drowning deeper and deeper. So watch out for him. Last but not the least try to be gentle with him.

Also, I would like to tell you that i would love to take you to a coffee or something sometimes.??
Him
2015-05-14 04:27:31 UTC
Most young boys get excited over seeing a nude or partially nude woman. And usually it makes no difference if its a family member or not. As they are going through their development years, its natural to project some of their sexual desires upon the woman closest to them, normally their mother. Many men base their preferences in what they believe to be sexually attractive to them from their own mothers. It perfectly normal for him to want to see you like this. And since you are the closest person to him and the easiest one to see in this way, you have become the target of his clandestine photography.



I wouldn't stress about it too much. He will soon be finding other women to focus on and you can feel better knowing that he is looking for someone with your same qualities.
katy
2015-05-14 02:51:05 UTC
I think you should definately confront him on it, if you leave it it will only get worse. When he's alone ask him to sit down and talk to him about, ask him why he's done it, also converscate his laptop, phone etc. and ground him, also check his internet history and files etc. on his laptop and phone just in case he's lying about why he has the photos, and yes it's an invasion of privacy but he invaded your privacy by secretly taking nude photos. If it turns out that he is a pervert then force him to go to councelling.
2015-05-15 10:51:00 UTC
I read on a book that a son would naturally want to kill his dad to get to have sex with his mom. As if it's part of our animalistic nature. Maybe at his age, he is having a growing sexual attraction in you. So I think it's natural especially if you are sexy and adorable hot mom. I'd say just let it go. You should only take necessary steps if he tried or attempt to rape you or molest you or touch you in some private area.



I watched many videos/movies about a son having sexual desire to his mom because his mom is sooo hot. This probably true especially if step mom and step son relationship.
anthony
2015-05-18 03:06:52 UTC
Don't worry too much- I used to have pictures of both my mother and father naked, growing up. Also pics of my sister, aunts and uncles, and anyone else I could get. I used to trade them like baseball cards with the neighborhood kids and pictures of their parents. Got quite a little collection eventually, all organized in a stack of 8 by 12 binders. Funny thing is, that's how I make my living. All the people and relatives I have nude and pornographic pictures of, pay me to keep them off the internet! So, maybe your son has a future in blackmail and incest ahead of him.
Steve
2015-05-14 00:40:03 UTC
Speak with him. Just show the envelope and ask what it is? And advise him, its bad to think a mom like that. Tell there is a age to go, and then he will find a nice partner in life. Till then concentrate on studies. Also tell him that you never thought bad about him, and he is your lovely son. Tell him that you care for his future. For 1 or 2 days, he may be bit embrassed, till then don't disturb, but have a eye on him. Later you can speak with him and he would become normal.
?
2015-05-14 01:54:18 UTC
Rest assured most sons in America don't have pictures of their mother, or their parents, in nude situations, and especially in settings where the parents are sexual. It just doesn't happen, typically, so your son is not normal, first for possessing nude photos of his mother, and secondly protecting possession by hiding them. Go to his room, when he is not there, confiscate the photos, but keep them in a locked drawer, or a safe.and say nothing to him. I guarantee you, he will be so concerned about whom might have them, and he will find religion, to pray it's not you. Yet, he will have to calculate odds, unless you have other sons, and older daughters. At 18, he will face perhaps his first delema, not as a boy, but as an adult male.I can't tell you his ultimate reaction, but I can assure you, he will freak out, and it will dwell in his head, until he breaks. He might avoid you every way possible, and you can accept that as his tribulation, basically the fact he screwed himself with his own mother. That is punishment, far more than confronting him to embarrass him. In fact, he might approach you at some point, and ask you about the photos. It is then he will apologize, or say he's sorry, or, he will fade away in his own life, and never bring the subject up.
Employment
2015-05-15 09:32:15 UTC
Hard situation to deal with.



I would encourage you to reach out to a licensed psychologist. Upon discussing the situation with the psychologist, you can ask him to meet you both and be there to help the communication.



I believe it essential that you keep out of his camera as much as possible until then, and not let him know of anything up to the discussion. But again your psychologist can be more helpful.



I would not be surprised if he were to trade your pictures in exchange of more suitable mate pictures for himself. I would guess that would not be unheard of. Try to check, discretely, his cell phone, computer and social media activity.

I know that you may be able to install a key logger on your machine, so to be able to retrieve activity and passwords. However, you may wish to check about key loggers as legal issues may arise.



It must be surprising what you discovered. But do not let it go under your skin. Keep your cool, these are the situations where it is most needed.



Good Luck.
?
2015-05-14 12:01:07 UTC
You will experience the future that you18 year old perverted ideas will manifest into further perversion always on going when and then out of your house to pursue as he is doing 18 years old

Bottom line you can not a will not be able to help and discover what you can do at the moment in time the seed was set

John
?
2015-05-17 22:27:53 UTC
This whole question seems very flawed.(Not meaning to sound heartless but it makes a person pause to wonder how your family life really is)



Why would you not have good communication with your son regardless of his age? And, WHY would you feel a need to ask a bunch of strangers what to do on Yahoo Answers?



First thing you should do is PRAY. And then I would kindly suggest reading this article which I feel will help:



http://www.jw.org/en/publications/books/happy-family/how-to-solve-problems/



I suggest you BOTH go over this as well: http://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/family/teenagers/ask/avoid-pornography/



The best to you in all your endeavors.
?
2015-05-15 07:35:03 UTC
No one seems to have asked if you are cavalier about nudity.

The solution would be to cover up , lock your doors when you shower. Lock your bedroom door when you dress or have sex.

Now, if he is spying on your, that is a whole other issue.

Boys are sometimes way too visually stimulated to see Mom in a sheer bathrobe. I am not blaming you for his problem but suggesting that you practice modesty around him so he is no longer able to take pictures.

You could just take the photographs. That is what I would do and burn them and he will figure it out that you are on to him.
joanie t
2015-05-15 08:49:59 UTC
Your Son may not even know of these photos. Maybe someone is setting him up. Teenagers and drugs don't mix. Think down all avenues, before you accuse your son or even ask him. What a very touchy subject. He may be absolutely innocent and to jump on him, you may lose your son. Before you do anything be aware of everything. Good Luck!!
CocoSimmer X
2015-05-13 12:16:06 UTC
Whether he did take the pictures or not, I would still give out to my son for having nude pictures of myself. Sit down with him and ask him why he has them pictures in his possession. Tell him not to be embarrassed and he should tell you the full truth because you already know everything ( this always works)



hip

Coco ;)

xxx
?
2015-05-15 18:55:32 UTC
keep an eye on him. Also, remember to close the door when ur changing and make sure nobody is there when u take ur clothes off. if u really want, u should ask him.... but obviously the first thing id do is thro away the envelope or get rid of it... If they r printed pictures, it may be that he has them on his phone or laptop. a friend may have sent them to him, we don't know. Nobody in this generation prints photos anymore, so there must be some reason...
ViralThakkaar
2015-05-15 04:38:22 UTC
First never keep your nude pics accessible

Second confront your son about this, remember we are strangers but that 18 year old is your own son
?
2015-05-13 14:59:39 UTC
I say destroy the pictures and don't say a word about it. He might realize somebody has found them and feel ashamed and hopefully never do it again. But check his room again after a while (he probably will move the hiding spot if he does it again). If you find them again then you should talk to him about it. Even though this is a pretty disturbing, just give him one chance to rectify his mistake and call him out on it if he does it again.
?
2015-05-15 11:47:46 UTC
Start with telling him what you found and know, and ask him if he took them, then tell him how it's making you feel, then if it appears that it is his doing tell him that it has to stop. Confiscate the pics and store away somewhere as evidence. If behavior stops, after a time destroy the pics and move on with your lives. If he continues 'questionable' behavior bring his father into the picture, and consider getting your son into counseling.
saeed
2015-05-14 01:57:12 UTC
I may be wrong but I think the problem lies with your own way of living since he was younger. you should learn that everybody has to have different personalities . one for work , one for home, one for the children, one for the public, one for the bedroom. I think that's where you act weakly. I think you only have one fixed personality for every place you're in ,that's not good enough. you should do your best not to draw the attention of Everybody to your sex life, it should be a private matter, I think you're the reason he doesn't see you as a mom, as much as he should, maybe because you don't act like a mom around him. I hope you get my point. and also it would be better if he found lots of friends, they will lead his mind to normal teenage stuff
?
2015-05-12 21:42:54 UTC
Confront him. It's completely creepy for him to be taking nude pictures of you without his permission. You need to find out what's going on ASAP!
?
2015-05-12 22:31:08 UTC
this is disgusting. you definitely need to punish him regardless if he's 18. it's your house and you're the boss and if he doesn't like it then he can move out. you need to set out some rules and stop giving him free time (if u even do that). take away anything he's got. phone,car keys, computer, anything until he learns. he could be incest or maybe exploring his sexuality but looking at nude pictures of your mom is just innapropriate and unacceptable.
Annie
2015-05-14 15:37:16 UTC
This is very serious and cause for serious concern. We at Yahoo Answers can speculate forever; but at the end of the day IMHO you need a professional involved. Ask your family doctor or another trusted person for a recommendation for family counseling. He may also need to see the therapist or another therapist by himself. Do not let him refuse to go. He is 18 and you can turn him out of the house (not that you want to, I don't imagine) if necessary. Good luck.
Ocimom
2015-05-14 15:09:51 UTC
Yes you need to sit down NOW and confront him. This can lead to more serious legal problems in the future if he's taking nude pictures of other people too w/o their knowledge. Its invasion of privacy.
?
2015-05-14 07:54:21 UTC
He's probably selling them in school. I would ask to have him share the profits. You're obviously hot and should be flattered. Oh BTW, take you're son to the shrink cause he's gotta a bad case of oedipal complex that should be given some serious attention.
Layla
2015-05-17 01:14:09 UTC
If he's young confront him. - I don't think your son will be young if he knew so well that he has to hide them.

If he's older check his phone. I know you may not want to doubt him but god knows what he was doing with those photos, or even if he's being blackmailed or maybe he sent them to someone ?

If they were sent to anybody - Confront him. If you find nothing, just let it go and pray that the next time you check you don't find more in that envelope
2015-05-14 11:50:21 UTC
I'd suggest NOT to talk to him just yet. For now, just leave the envelope right there.



Imagine how he would feel when he finds out they his mother you know that. The poor guy would be so so embarrassed and awkward around you. You just won't share that relationship anymore where everything is simple and effortless.



I am telling you.



So just don't so anything for now. Let things fall into place by themselves. Keep quiet as disturbed as you are he would be when he finds out you know his deed.



I'd strongly suggest you to keep your bathroom door and windows tightly locked and fully COVERED I MEAN FULLY when you bathe/shower and the same applies for your bedroom.
Rick N
2015-05-14 03:42:05 UTC
I think you are jumping to conclusions. The only thing you know is that you have found some nude pictures. You don't know who took them, what the situation was, how they got there, or any other such thing - and to jump to any kind of conclusion is just crazy. you could ask him what the deal is, or you could shred the pictures - unless he confesses to doing it, you shouldn't assume he is guilty. you don't know what the deal is right now. Personally, I think you have a right to know how they got there and I think you have a right to destroy them - it's your home.
?
2015-05-17 14:36:45 UTC
He is just now starting to realize what he wants in a woman. As weird as it seems, most males want someone like his mother. Same as woman want someone like their father. It's normal for him to be curious about you, but nude pictures are a little extreme. Maybe someone else took them and hid them under his bed? Very strange situation but in all honesty, he probably looks up to you and hopes to find someone like you in a relationship. I would keep your eye out but not confront him right now. There could be a perfectly good explanation. He might be confused. Maybe he is gay? He is figuring himself out and I would be cautious about asking him.
?
2015-05-16 00:18:49 UTC
This doesn't sound normal at all. He might do this to other women, and busted as a sex offender with a criminal record. Something isn't right with him, and sounds like he needs to seek professional help. Does he have some sort of mental issue? Is he using drugs? Pay attention.....
?
2015-05-15 17:01:15 UTC
This is so fake. A kid with an envelope full of pictures. So phony. If you had said a flash drive or data card I might believe you. No young person today is still developing film in this day of technology.
?
2015-05-13 19:00:27 UTC
Don't you dare say anything to him, he may never be able to feel comfortable around you again. He is going through a stage of curiosity of the way the opposite sex looks naked and you are an easy candid camera target for him to explore that curiosity. Just leave him alone and he will soon move on to some other more natural way. Very unlikely that he is feeling anything sexual toward you, if you find that he is make sure you let him know that it isn't alright with you and that it is an extremely dishonorable thing to be that way and you know he can live better than that. Once you act out on something like that it can never be reversed. I have broken other laws of the ten commandments myself and have found that their is an automatic penalty, and it is to the point that you will regret ever breaking one of those laws, I've seen others that have paid also. It's better to just do things the right way and be an honorable person.
nanny ogg
2015-05-13 17:46:58 UTC
I would tell his Dad, and then get Dad to talk to him about it. Something needs to be said and it might be easier coming from another male. This is not respectful for you and he needs to understand that he has done wrong because he has not respected your privacy. I would not dwell too much on the sexual content but rather on the privacy issue. Also from now on you need to be a little more careful, lock doors and cover up. Its a delicate subject but if done correct and without anger it can be sorted.
Jyotirmoy
2015-05-15 11:00:50 UTC
I think somebody is forcing your son to took your nude pictures.
Sree
2015-05-15 11:51:06 UTC
Take the picture away. And take your son to a shrink (psychologist). You need expert help in order to solve issues like this. Plus there is that possibility that Rayvan pointed out, I would seriously consider it.
Joan
2015-05-13 19:45:05 UTC
This is an addiction of sorts but when it comes down to nude photos I think

you need to get into some serious confrontations with him before it goes viral somewhere,

to me that is definitely inappropriate.
?
2015-05-14 16:15:41 UTC
Are you really hot ? How old are the photos ? No matter how you look at it . The kid is weird and not in a good way , Just not a normal thing to do . He is 18 and smacking his carrot to naked photos of you . I was a screwed up kid but now I feel like an angel . I have seen porn videos of this ( thing ) but I figured their just acting . I guess its a real fetish . Good luck .
debbie
2015-05-14 17:19:48 UTC
This may have been said already because I didn't read thru all 200 comments.

The photos could possibly be for his friends .... Maybe they want to see what their friends mom looks like naked. Haven't you ever heard of the term, MILF? I'm sure you can figure it out. Just make sure it's him or his own idea before you confront him. I would not be looking forward to having this meeting...,,
?
2015-05-14 14:26:51 UTC
Having had three sons...all grown-up now....I too found nude pics of girls. Perfectly normal. My third son had photos of handsome young men , that was worrying but he now has a good partner and we love them very much...both doctors. Be glad you have hetero sons...from their point of view. Mo Ma and Grandma.



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?
2015-05-14 07:23:22 UTC
Sounds like your son wants to bang momma. He probably has seen you getting banged hard by one of your neighbors or whoever it is that you allow in your bedroom. Regardless, sit him down, ask him if he took the pictures and if he says,"yes", then tell him to get his camera and then you strip down and let him take all of the pictures he wants. Once he is done, go back to your business. Studies have shown that this will help get it out of his system. Don't forget to smile when you pose. =)
Asked and Answered
2015-05-15 12:17:32 UTC
While I think you're in reality a time-wasting troll I'll bite and answer the question... Why would you not have your son arrested and prosecuted for this? Unless you subscribe to the philosophy that incest is best because you know what you're getting.
Lossy
2015-05-14 07:42:35 UTC
Whether he took the pics or not that is not the point. He is not suppose to have your pix while you are naked period. There is a boundary between a mother and the child. A mother can have their children pix when they are naked and I bet only when they are small but if they are grown the mother will not have those pix. So I am 100% of the opinion that you should confront him and findout where he got the pix from and why he has your pix. And please do it wisely, no screaming no nothing, since you want answers
Nikala
2015-05-18 06:12:44 UTC
First of all, you shouldn't of looked at his personal things. You opened an envolope that was under his bed, he is 18. You should respect his rights. Even if he does live with you. If he is taking photos of you, most likely was because he is horny a lot. Its probably your image, not because you're his mum. He is most likely digusted by that. He probably jerks off, they need release. So I would let it go. If you spot him, then talk to him. Don't go through his things, as tempting as it is!
Olissipio
2015-05-15 22:44:28 UTC
Take him to a psychiatrist.Thats not normal behaviour for a Son to have towards hIs Mum.(to prove It just think how you feel about It)

At 18 he Is a grown up Men with Sexual desires.
?
2015-05-14 16:02:02 UTC
OMG confront your son and ask him why there are nude pictures of you in his room.
2015-05-16 03:25:51 UTC
Can someone explain to me why would son do this ? Where is the respect of mother ?



I am young and still virgin and I do get horny a lot but I will never do that in no matter kind of horny or position I will be. I hope your son did not do that.
?
2015-05-13 18:56:59 UTC
Sit down and talk. Use the sandwich technique. First , give a compliment that you like about that person and tehn share the issue/concerns and finish with a compliment about them. People are more willing to talk if you start out nice. Discover ways to make it work going forward.
2015-05-15 15:44:56 UTC
Why would your son take nude pictures of you? I don't take nude pictures of my parents. Wth? Is this incestuous or is he selling them?
San Diego Daniel
2015-05-13 20:21:24 UTC
As a son, I recommended you don't say a thing. Just throw away the pictures and put in your mind that you never found them.
2015-05-15 09:47:08 UTC
You should sit down and talk to him about it in a stern tone of voice you need to let him know that it is wrong and that you know about it otherwise he'll keep doing but don't yell at him because that will make the situation much more awkward than it already is, not troll but this is much more common than you think a young boy may see his mother naked accidentally or wander around the house at night and see his mother with his father and start experimenting with themselves with that idea because its probably the first sexual thing that they see
Ashley
2015-05-13 18:25:32 UTC
Honestly, you need to talk to him. You need to understand him and why he's done this, if it was him. I can't imagine it would be someone else (a friend) storing it under his bed. You need to tell him that this is completely inappropriate. Please don't take offense to this, but does he have any mental disabilities? That would shed a little light on it. Tell him you will keep this between you both and do just that.
Steve
2015-05-13 07:25:40 UTC
His violating your privacy is the offense here, but you needn't confront him. Just destroy the pictures.

He will get that he was found out, and will be humiliated. Your not confronting him, sparing him that embarrassment, will be a lesson in compassion. He will respect you for it and won't spy again.
Nick
2015-05-13 08:46:00 UTC
Is good you found them. Clearly you son finds you sexually attractive and you excite and arouse him. create a situation where he can move these fanasies of being with you naked to reality. you are clearly a beautiful and attractive woman. He is a fit and capable 18 year old. enjoy his sexuality and youth. teach him how to be a great lover and build a close and more intimate bond together.
Linda
2015-05-15 16:54:04 UTC
Wow, perverted in a awful way. Sad, I'm a mom, and sex is so complicated these days with free sex and divorces rampant. I'd confront him immediately, but what if he lies? What if he's sick and needs therapy,desperately! I had a male roomate, and he violated my boundaries. Hopefully with so many people answering you, you'll sort through it, and find a satisfactory answer for action!
?
2015-05-18 03:06:55 UTC
I find myself wondering.... how could your son have gotten pics of you naked in the shower? how could your son have gotten pics of you undressed in your room?



Unless son has destroyed property by drilling holes in wall and has a really expensive camera set-up, then I have to say a good portion of the blame is on you for leaving doors open
zhr
2015-05-16 05:11:57 UTC
What 18 year old print naked pictures of his own mother and enclose them in an envelope, under his mattress? In the 21st century where we have 20mpxl phone cameras? This does not sound legit at all and I feel sorry for you for making this up.
Joe
2015-05-14 11:59:17 UTC
Confront him.Find out why he is doing this.Explain why it is improper for him to do this activity.Tell him it is not to happen again.Find out if he has pictures of other family members or pictures of other people.If he has pictures of people under age he could be in some trouble.
Christopher
2015-05-12 17:23:49 UTC
No. Don't confront him. The Humiliation would be too much.



Instead just destroy the pictures. When he discovers they are gone he will figure out what happened to them. And the moment he realizes it... will be punishment enough.



You don't need to say a word.



I'm sure he will not come ask you for them.



Although I agree this is odd, don't read too much into this.... us guys do stupid things when we are young.
Ramjan
2015-05-17 20:11:14 UTC
But, other than that does son have a gf? Maybe because he does not know about the birds and the bees yet. He may be frightened.

. Definitely a talk is in order.
?
2015-05-18 15:01:58 UTC
It is unbelievable. Guess your son is only one in this world. I hate to advice someone, but I think, if the pictures are his, then he deserves to be refused. Since, he is 18, let him leave your house and live by his own somewhere else
kv96ic28
2015-05-13 23:11:38 UTC
Interesting question this. But it is a personal matter and does not concern me. The life you have and the family you raise is a reflection of your community culture and your own familial genetic makeup. Perhaps he is learning, or perhaps he has uncontrollable sexual urges Who is to say?



I would urge you to sit down and have a chat with him in a neutral location with a qualified medical practitioner.
2015-05-14 08:33:30 UTC
Very disturbing any way you slice it. Confront him and make sure he knows that this stuff is unacceptable. I know you are very curious about finding out what would cause him to do this stuff, if you find a proper way to ask what is/was on his mind that made him want to do this then you should. If by some chance he found the pics., why would he save them. If I did I would burn them or rip them to shreds and wash my eyes out with soap. Seeing your parents naked? GROSS!
?
2015-05-14 08:16:43 UTC
Am I the only one who thinks that while this story may be legitimate (stranger things have been known to happen), doesn't it also seem like this could be somebody who's posting a sexual fantasy on-line just to see what sort of reaction it gets?
honey
2015-05-14 10:55:42 UTC
don't confront him about it as this could go really bad for him. I think what you need to do is tell your wife or ex about this and then talk to a therapist for advise. a professional will know how to deal with this situation. your son might need to talk to a therapist as well. but whatever you do, don't confront your son about this quite yet.
?
2015-05-15 10:21:34 UTC
Is it obvious to no one else that this question was made up to get people to respond? "I am pretty sexually active but I have not dealt with my own son before." How many women do you know who talk like that? For me, zero--even those who are "pretty sexually active" would not talk about themselves in that objective, evaluative way.



Everyone is so quick to offer advice--think for a moment first, people, this is obviously some guy making up a story wanting to have people listen to it and talk salaciously about a son being attracted to his mother.
Zach
2015-05-14 14:11:05 UTC
Google Oedipus complex
Ivan
2015-05-16 05:20:52 UTC
Your son Norman Bates needs professional help, Emma.
Mamunur rashid
2015-05-16 14:19:59 UTC
Be more attentive, while taking personal care. Is he really doing this or not. Its up to you, if you wish to talk with him directly or not. Take your time, be patient.



At this age boys and girls grow faster physically. Sexual consciousness act this stage differently. They just steps in the wrong direction impulsively. I think talk directly to your child as a responsible mother and consult with a good psychologist.
James M.
2015-05-15 10:29:17 UTC
Hey, that's some decent trollery right there. You got at least 270+ suckers to fall for your fake story, Mrs. "Anonymous". Yahoo! Answers - a comedy gold mine. Keep up the good work!
Attitude
2015-05-16 05:08:48 UTC
Discuss this issue with your son and expalin him that whatever he is doing ethically wrong . He should not think about his mother in this way. Tell him that this incident will not affect your mother-son relationship if he would not repeat this again. Also warn him that it would be bad for him if he would try to spy on you again.
?
2015-05-15 13:13:02 UTC
Sex was meant for 1 married man and 1 married woman period. You are going outside of the lines and your son is just following the leader. Yes talk with him, honesty is ever wrong.
malcolmx
2015-05-13 19:42:33 UTC
I am sooo uncomfortable with this. YOU need to confront your son in private and tell him your embarrassed and to please not do it again. Tell him to throw out those nasty pictures. Tell him you can understand if its another girl / woman, but not you. You are his mother and should be respected. Also DONT WALK AROUND THE HOUSE HALF DRESSED. That will cause a problem. But do tell him.
Adair
2015-05-17 09:18:41 UTC
Kids don't have actual pictures nowadays- everything is digital. Maybe someone tried to blackmail you or him and he took care of it already. In any case definitely confront him.
Will
2015-05-14 23:42:11 UTC
Read up on Sigmund Freud and the Oedipus complex. Believe it or not it's more common than people are willing to admit.
Nessa
2015-05-14 19:26:58 UTC
They do get perverted in this age. If you confornt him he will be lying to you.get him a therapist -seems like thiings gone out of hand. its not normal- it will be worse if you statr talking to him. he needs a professional. more likekly he had a crisis in younger ages.- maybe socila agenda or some perverted things he seen on a tv
oftheangels25
2015-05-14 14:09:13 UTC
This question is false. You would not put "I am sexually active" if your concern was with your son that would not even be a matter in question. If however you are genuine. Sleep with his friends and take pictures and show him.
2015-05-15 05:54:18 UTC
Intense Therapy is needed here. This is going way beyond one just being inquisitive.

Your son has some extremely twisted issues he is dealing with. Get him help. NOW.
david
2015-05-13 12:42:48 UTC
People don't make pictures and put them in an envelope anymore. Especially not young people. You are a liar , I think.
prof
2015-05-14 12:07:49 UTC
It is imperative to be transparent in talking to your son about this serious incident in a loving way.This could be blown up to something nasty if you get angry and start to shout and rave about this incident. If you do not feel comfortable in talking to him, why not talk to your family physician or a priest? I think you need to not rave and get angry. What would be the purpose?
?
2015-05-16 18:04:31 UTC
Why are you snooping around your 18 year old son's room?
?
2015-05-13 08:59:21 UTC
Might want to ask him how he got the pictures of you nude.
George Lihoma
2015-05-16 20:56:35 UTC
Simple: 1.Get the envelope and wait for his reaction. If he doesn't ask,then he didn't take them himself but landed on him mistakenly. After say a week ask him. 2.If he happen to ask of them, goodness then confront him from there.
2015-05-15 20:29:42 UTC
That's...hot.
?
2015-05-14 11:55:09 UTC
Time to kick him out of the house or send him away to college. He's 18. He knows better. He's being a predator wants to spy on you and pleasure himself to incest thoughts.
DDLAKES
2015-05-14 06:31:36 UTC
I suggest you buy your son a computer and digital camera so he will no longer have to make old fashioned prints of pictures.
daoud
2015-05-15 07:40:13 UTC
honestly,no one can say for sure your son took those pics.you know what?I think that one of his hating mates

did that using photoshop tricks.

Does your son really need to take these pics and put them in an envelope under his matress? what for?The one who did this only wants to hurt you and your son too..if he isn't already.

Please don't CONFRONT your son,you rather should TALK to him.any MOTHER would see what I mean..

friendly.
2015-05-15 13:39:28 UTC
" discovered pictures of me..nude pictures."



You better find out if those pictures went up on the Internet if he put them on the web millions of people can see them.
2015-05-14 21:25:44 UTC
That's creepy
Nick Disney
2015-05-14 11:08:28 UTC
What 18 year old develops pictures?
Jazzy
2015-05-18 08:26:57 UTC
So by you saying "I am sexually active, but i have not ad anything like this before" Are you saying you could hook up with your 18yr old son? BRUUUUH if this is true then confront him but if you are a f*cked up creep then he needs to move out before him mom try's incest
michael
2015-05-17 06:28:02 UTC
Say nothing to him and view hes behaviour as a compliment. Evidently he sees you as being hot and alluring.



Ensure youre privacy is maintained. Check for any spy cameras in the shower.
steve
2015-05-14 23:05:30 UTC
That's crazy
William3onfire
2015-05-16 16:34:42 UTC
Yes, there is a PROBLEM. 18 Years? He is two old to be having those kind of iisues. What you should have found was a Playboy. A porno, etc. That is perfectly normal...but of YOU...something is wrong.
2015-05-15 10:19:34 UTC
If he's 18 then what are you doing looking inside envelopes in his room? You should be ashamed of yourself.
sparks
2015-05-14 17:22:18 UTC
I don't know I'd need to look at the pictures before I could make a judgement.
?
2015-05-14 06:27:53 UTC
Think of your sons future. He has a bright future in internet sales and early experience. Praise the Lad.
2015-05-15 16:57:36 UTC
The easy solution would be dont be a slut. Are you even telling the truth? Cos thats one foul lie if not.



Did you take the photos, did he take the photos, did his friend find the photos and when you came in the house he then hid them under the matress? Theres a hundred reasons..
James
2015-05-14 08:54:36 UTC
My stepmom only caught me with a playboy and was so pissed saying that if I degraded women she will teach me how it feels. she spanked me and kept me nude all weekend even in front of some ladies in her church group. I never did that again.
Tigger
2015-05-15 14:31:49 UTC
An 18-year-old is an adult but better abide by the house rules if he lives there. Warn him and tell him if this continues he's gone.
judith
2015-05-12 20:40:35 UTC
This is seriously creepy ...... if true. I have my doubts as to how he could've taken these photo's without you knowing.



If it's true you need to confront him, destroy the photo's and try and get him to tell you if he's distributed them elsewhere.



If it's not true it's still creepy that you'd make it up
infidel-louie
2015-05-14 09:28:29 UTC
IF this story is true confront him immediately with his father. If this behavior isn't checked it could lead to a lot more perverse behavior in the future.
Steven
2015-05-19 02:07:26 UTC
He is discovering a woman's body, horny and needs sex! You might be the only woman in the house, regardless if you are his mother. He might not know any women or is a virgin, you must take these categories into consideration as well.
Vanvikki3
2015-05-13 18:31:39 UTC
Yes be open with him and see if he is following what his friends could be doing.

Send him to the library or make him read articles on how poor people live.
Julia
2015-05-18 18:02:54 UTC
Umm first off I'm sorry second you and your son should see a therapist
?
2015-05-15 23:11:32 UTC
I'm sorry but that's extremely disgusting of your son. It doesn't matter how attractive or how sexually active you are. Incest is disgusting and makes me want to throw up. Ugh...
Neferttiti
2015-05-18 10:43:47 UTC
thats just nasty..smdh....ugh but yeah i would talk to a therapist and mix whatever they say with a hardcore serious conversation. Show him that its illegal to violate someones privacy and to take pictures of someone whodoesnt want them taken. take him to a psychiatrist because for him to want those photos means he is not mentally stable.
2015-05-14 12:07:35 UTC
Wow.



He's got some issues woman!
Desiree
2015-05-17 20:45:02 UTC
I'm not sure if this is real or a troll. :/ Either way, that is a pretty strange situation. I would personally confront him about it, but don't be too harsh.
seamus
2015-05-18 18:48:48 UTC
Jesuz
Iwont
2015-05-15 07:36:27 UTC
I'm a teenager. Understand that sex is really a sensitive issue for most everyone. Be kind and talk to him about it and express your concerns. See what he has to say and be open and willing to listen to what he has to say.
2015-05-15 08:12:42 UTC
It's could be someone else who took the photo. Try keep an eye out for someone secretly taking photos of you
Aloysius
2015-05-16 17:03:45 UTC
I congratulate you for pulling a pretty damn good troll. It was so believable that I almost believed it till I thought about it. You win the satisfaction of knowing you wasted all these peoples time who actually believed you.
RockIt
2015-05-15 13:44:56 UTC
Is your son named Norman?
2015-05-13 15:26:10 UTC
Please don't take the photos or confront him. My mom just read my diary and another note that was private I wish she left it there and pretended she never saw it but she didn't I feel so embarrsed and awful right now. Hes just a teenage guy he ment no harm he sit is a little creepy but it's just body parts what's the harm. All you will be doing by taking them away or talking to him is making him feel stupid he'll probably cry and feel like he wants to kill himself, don't do it if u don't want your son to die of embarrassment.
Mr Brown
2015-05-14 15:53:32 UTC
Confront, get answers, solution - counselling.



I blame society. It's pretty sick nowadays. And I know who is behind pushing immorality and degeneracy in the media and internet too ..
Dell M
2015-05-14 11:54:47 UTC
I would have to exam the photo's closely in order to make an educated decision
Cathy
2015-05-14 15:08:38 UTC
Confront him. Make an appointment with a counselor. You both need to talk to someone trained to handle this situation. and deal with it correctly. Yikes.
Wendy
2015-05-12 17:33:44 UTC
He in some ways like what he saw , You may ask him but be cool when asking and let him talk ,

He may be having trouble with a girl and you are his out .
Ryan Wu
2015-05-13 17:44:48 UTC
Incest is not okay. A good thing to do is to take the pictures and use marker to draw over them and add clothes.
patrick
2015-05-18 04:23:23 UTC
When you get un dress to do anything swing the door wide open in hopes to catch him. Especially if you have more than one kid. Other kid could set others up. Just saying.
Moonlight
2015-05-13 13:23:24 UTC
WTF?! nick, are you insane?! This is incest, dude!

I think it would be best to think about his personality and how will he react if you confront him and ask him why did he have those pictures there. Tell him not to be embarrassed and just tell you the truth. I'm sure everything will be solved if you are honest with each other. Honesty is the best method.
?
2015-05-16 15:04:25 UTC
Your son could want to have incest sexual intercourse with you? or possibly want to release these images elsewhere to get money or to get something else. I don't think there are any other reasons for this action.
jennifer
2015-05-17 19:44:38 UTC
you dont know for sure they are your sons. they could of been someone else from your own house who took them and he stole them from that person and well he could just be trying to tell you about it too. that will pretty sick if your own son has that of you so i dont think it was him, you better than anyone should know if he is actually doing that.
?
2015-05-15 10:11:31 UTC
Your son is a 18 year old muthafucking man.This was no prank,game,or ******* joke.your son needs some ******* help.You bring his father into this so he can have a talk with him because if you do it by yourself he might just do this whole Damm thing over again.
?
2015-05-16 11:20:25 UTC
Get your son a computer m8 either u r a substitute for the porn hub or he is selling nudes for his friends for money because your whore *** can t give him any money
?
2015-05-16 12:42:15 UTC
What's the big deal? No one's ever wanted to get it on with their moms before? "Mother F**ker" wouldn't be an insult if there weren't people around doing it for us to look down upon. :)
K
2015-05-13 09:46:45 UTC
He needs help. Don't ignore it.



You need to seek professional help on how to help him. Right now it is you who knows who it will be next.



This is not to be ignored!! Best of luck. There is no shame it is what it is. Help him, that is what parents are for.
?
2015-05-13 07:17:57 UTC
I think you are just a TROLL .I can't understand this weird surge in questions promoting incest.You will never make it acceptable in society .So there.
ironman
2015-05-14 22:28:27 UTC
You should confront him and tell that such habit may one day land him in jail as well. Today this is you. Next he will do the same to someone else.
2015-05-15 04:41:56 UTC
How the hell does anyone take photos any more? Are they printed on computer paper? I don't know of anyone who keeps real pictures.
Adolt
2015-05-14 18:30:07 UTC
I blame Sigmund Freud.
?
2015-05-13 07:48:09 UTC
sit down and ask him, then find him some help. my guess is you have been waltzing around like this for a very long time and you have caused him to be aroused by you. you prob both need to get some counseling.
Daniel
2015-05-14 06:08:34 UTC
The only way to go is to have a talk. Ask him where did he get these photos and why does he keep it. Only then you can make any conclusions
2015-05-14 00:00:57 UTC
It shows that your son is also sexually active !!! As he is 18 years old. You should talk to him and tell about what is right and what is wrong!!!
?
2015-05-16 22:21:44 UTC
Remember, there are some who doesn't understand bark...they understand bite. Go straight to him and give him two tight slaps and kicks to him! He will eventually understand.
Blue Sky
2015-05-14 05:14:55 UTC
Wow, 112 fools got trolled. Nice job Anon.
Leslie
2015-05-14 14:40:56 UTC
Replace the pictures in the enveloppe by a letter saying you are not angry but you would like to talk to him about it.
?
2015-05-16 23:39:52 UTC
quit being sexually active around him , do not bring men to ur house and think its ok . u are the teacher and he is the student . u have to live rite if u want him to do rite . he is following u and thinks its normal to do.HELLO U GOT A WAKE UP CALL . sit down talk to him now and let him know it 's wrong . start living the way u want him to live
Sadie
2015-05-13 17:11:46 UTC
Do you also have a daughter named Stacy? Cuz it sounds like you've got it goin' on.
James
2015-05-18 08:48:55 UTC
The answer is real easy in two parts part one is wanting to be little you or even blackmail u part two do u enjoy it u most do why mention it on a open site
Daniel
2015-05-15 07:53:28 UTC
I can not give you an honest opinion until I see those pictures. Want to inbox them to me?
Carolyn
2015-05-16 04:51:28 UTC
Speak to a professional
2015-05-14 18:27:43 UTC
Whatever you do, you have to eventually confront him so your life does not turn into an episode of Bates Motel.
south of france
2015-05-14 19:09:22 UTC
I would let it go. He is 18 and will not like it if you were in his room.
Ann
2015-05-16 06:03:21 UTC
What a shock! I think your son needs help. This is just not normal!!
2015-05-14 09:02:29 UTC
Give him a nude lap dance and let us know what happens....
47 Percenter
2015-05-15 07:52:36 UTC
That's creepy. I'd be checking your bathroom and bedroom for devices.
?
2015-05-15 06:37:17 UTC
Never mind it as far as you live happy with your husband and there is not significant family wealth to protect.

In Japan they do it in family bedrooms
Jamie
2015-05-14 19:38:02 UTC
Can we see some of these pictures?
?
2015-05-13 17:58:44 UTC
Is your son Norman Bates?
adam
2015-05-16 16:23:17 UTC
holy cr ap that's F***ed up as hell. I mean your son clearly has problems ignore all these sympathetic people saying its "natural" and that your son is "exploring his sexuality".....THAT IS NOT NORMAL. Take this kid to therapy or something
Tony
2015-05-13 23:16:58 UTC
Talk to him, try to let him know that it's unusual. Some ages are weird IMO!
Md. Riad
2015-05-15 11:35:28 UTC
Time to be shown very hardness to your son.
h
2015-05-15 07:43:16 UTC
you just need to come up to him and say what is going on. If he admits to it all you need to do is take what action you think is necessary :) you seem like a lovely parent and know what to do good lick
caden
2015-05-12 22:06:37 UTC
Time to bust your son's nuts, not with a hammer but with your tongue ;)
lickit4u
2015-05-14 07:05:39 UTC
Guess he thinks his moms sexy.I think all boys do.Saw my mom nude once.Oh well did u get them back.Hope so.
mrsancho
2015-05-14 09:41:45 UTC
With that type of situation you have to confront about him with unless, he has a thing with you I know just make the conversation as calm as possible.:) hope everything works alright!:)
?
2015-05-14 22:02:01 UTC
Tit for tat. Take some nudie photos of him, his butt, his ween, and leave them under his mattress. Ho, ho, won't he be surprised when he finds those photos! No, seriously, he needs help. You need a lock on your door.
?
2015-05-13 02:33:16 UTC
I would call his bluff and knock on his door and stand completely naked for him. Tell him to get his camera and he can have two minutes to get the shots he wants. It may embarrass him and do the trick.
?
2015-05-14 08:07:53 UTC
Take away the camera first because if the photos are in digital format then they are all over he internet too surprise.
Arjun
2015-05-17 06:52:38 UTC
Of course confront him he is 18 an adult shuld not be doing that
?
2015-05-13 04:26:34 UTC
Burn those pics and keep quiet. Say nothing to your Son. Problem sloved. He would never do it agian
?
2015-05-13 18:53:01 UTC
Sure it's your son? Maybe it is your husband!
Stephanie
2015-05-16 07:55:18 UTC
I suggest you try to talk to him. If he denies it show him one of the photos (Censoring your privates with your finger) and try to ask about it calmly. Don't yell or scream like "WHAT THE **** IS THIS JUFIGUJYHGFIUJHEFKJGKJWS!!!" just be calm even though you may be horrified at what is going on.
Dainel
2015-05-15 23:38:19 UTC
Troll.
2015-05-18 10:01:29 UTC
empty the envelope of the pictures, and fill it with a note saying how disappointed you are. If he starts acting differently, you know that he was aware of the envelope.
2015-05-15 06:47:51 UTC
Same as ever with the strong pheromone of the your husband male towards the female forever wife, as it was in the past as it is in the future. Totally made up boring security questions. -SOUL- -7RING-
Alice
2015-05-13 19:07:59 UTC
Well. if i were you , i would like to talk to his dad. keep a eye on ur son. But do not talk to him just about this.
Weed o clock
2015-05-14 14:31:40 UTC
Illuminati confirmed?
?
2015-05-13 09:13:49 UTC
He may have got them from the site of one of those you are sexually

active with

That is a risk you take
elcabula2002
2015-05-15 13:38:47 UTC
You have to confront him about invading your privacy, because he may do it again with somebody else who may not be as forgiven as you. He may end up in jail or worse
Jocelyn
2015-05-13 14:33:30 UTC
So, basically, Kenneth, you are saying reward him for being a pervert?... and this is what's wrong with kids today...
Ron
2015-05-17 11:30:47 UTC
No big deal that some more pictures and add them to the envelope.
Johnny
2015-05-15 15:03:53 UTC
Wow your son has problems.
Bob
2015-05-13 22:12:09 UTC
ask him why he took the pics and I don't no what to do after that is wered for your son to do that.
?
2015-05-13 01:22:18 UTC
Stop playing on mommy's computer and go do your homework.
?
2015-05-14 15:37:09 UTC
Pray over your food and thank God your son loves the female body and not the other !
2015-05-14 18:16:01 UTC
Whip his A ss
?
2015-05-15 00:42:20 UTC
well he is your son, just talk to him. Dont give him any wrong impression else you guys will feel guilty for what you have done.
foo
2015-05-12 19:38:38 UTC
He sold one to me for 15 bucks, ma'am.
?
2015-05-13 13:56:30 UTC
Its usually a sign of potential incest. Thats just creepy.
Pat
2015-05-14 07:05:18 UTC
Dude thats weird lol, you should probably confront him unless You want that envelope to get bigger
lucia
2015-05-17 20:01:50 UTC
Seriously.....like really!??? Is this for real!??? Because if it is, this is the last place I'd be going to for advice. Take him to hospital.
Stacy Turner
2015-05-14 17:39:04 UTC
I need more context and imagery of the photos to answer you properly. Email them to me and then I can properly address your concern.
benice
2015-05-19 16:55:14 UTC
Ask him first before taking any action
2015-05-15 09:10:57 UTC
yeah I think that confronting him is needed and just let him know like what his body language is eye to eye contact and you can tell right there wether its him and if hes lying or not
joyblinkz
2015-05-18 10:05:10 UTC
Watch out for him an I also want u to call him an talk to him one on one to no y he does dat
2015-05-14 23:56:19 UTC
So long as hes a good boy and loves his mother
Justin
2015-05-15 02:45:48 UTC
Hmm I would try catching him in the act of doing this and have a talk with him about why he is doing this.
?
2015-05-14 07:44:12 UTC
Yes.
?
2015-05-16 21:48:35 UTC
Take some nudies of him and post it on internet for his friends to see.
2015-05-14 08:08:26 UTC
Cut this habit,

this habit isn't habit for your son anyway.

the good thing that you can lose it only in few months.
2015-05-13 11:18:27 UTC
Here's a good idea...............go on Yahoo Answers and ask 3 million strangers.........yeah, that's the ticket.
?
2015-05-14 04:52:43 UTC
Only confront him if you are interested in pursuing something sexual, otherwise leave it. It's harmless.
2015-05-15 07:45:03 UTC
You shouldn't taken does photos if photoshopped tell him very wrong.
Prakash
2015-05-14 03:17:20 UTC
It is nothing new in it ur son wants to have sex with you

pkeode@yahoo.in
2015-05-12 17:16:37 UTC
You should definitely get an explanation from him like NOW
Jacinta
2015-05-16 20:15:59 UTC
Obviously confront him but dont publicly embarass him! I would give him a punishment for that! that is so disgusting, dont let it go. Dont abuse him tho (obviously)
2015-05-14 19:05:55 UTC
You should confront him and have self dafence before he charges at full speed at you
?
2015-05-17 12:55:56 UTC
hmm who knows i'd say it depends how old or young he is, also make sure someone didn't plant them in his room you never know these days
corey
2015-05-14 06:40:44 UTC
I took pictures of my mum,nan I love it, its nothing wrong with it, family love is the best type of love, sleep with him and play with him ;)
thegreatone
2015-05-15 12:34:45 UTC
Burn the pictures and talk to your son.
Konrad
2015-05-15 05:38:17 UTC
if i was you, i'd get worried if you DIDN'T find any nudes, because ,in my opinion, i'd be more worried i found other things...
Emily
2015-05-15 18:04:34 UTC
your son is at that stage where he looks at those types of magiseins. you should just adress him calmy tell him what you saw and really tell him that its not ok and punish him for it show that you are there for him but it was not ok.
Somer
2015-05-13 12:14:30 UTC
If you brought up your son like your spelling and grammar, I would be suspicious, of YOU!
sarth
2015-05-14 14:46:16 UTC
It is effect due to his age....

But u should try to make understand him and Learn him normal human moral.
2015-05-13 11:30:19 UTC
Keep on rolling. Leave the little dude to practice his craft.
?
2015-05-15 17:53:07 UTC
I don't believe this story
?
2015-05-14 01:25:43 UTC
Let him explore it is normal just a way of growing up, maybe you should be flattered he finds your body sexy :)
?
2015-05-13 23:49:44 UTC
I agree with Sterling. Don't let it go just like that. Let him know that you know.
2015-05-13 13:53:14 UTC
His dream is to be a photographer, just doing his study !
2015-05-14 14:48:27 UTC
How and why did he have access to your nudes?
Nowhereman
2015-05-17 07:43:03 UTC
Just play it off and see what happends.

Don't berate him, just pay attention.
?
2015-05-13 12:32:23 UTC
Take the pictures, and in their place leave a Playboy magazine.
?
2015-05-16 07:43:28 UTC
printed pics ? this aint 1980... troll harder buddy.... if he was taking pics it would be digital on his pc/laptop and locked not under his mattress for his mom to find when cleaning.
?
2015-05-15 23:40:14 UTC
I would confront him personally, it's invading your privacy.
.
2015-05-14 21:08:29 UTC
Serious problems, first step to being a paedophile and sexual rapest.
miranda
2015-05-15 04:20:23 UTC
your son is clearly a creep so i suggest you give him up for adoption..... so basically put him in an orphan home with orcas.
Burt
2015-05-14 21:49:42 UTC
I call bullshit. Who the hell uses a camera that isn't digital? Pics or it didn't happen.
Annamaria F
2015-05-14 09:04:07 UTC
Put a lock on your bathroom door.
?
2015-05-15 13:19:20 UTC
HOLD THE **** UP. Sit his *** down and ask him about it but don't be no *****. Interrogate him like cops do with criminals.
2015-05-15 09:56:46 UTC
Maybe he watched taboo - a porn movie where - you can guess. Maybe he is really kinky. He will probably grow out of it. He is a teen. His hormones are all over the shop.
massive
2015-05-15 08:27:25 UTC
send your son to college, or the Army, either way get him out of your home asap.
?
2015-05-13 08:46:34 UTC
Trash them
Tomaiah
2015-05-17 22:44:35 UTC
You should confront him about this because it is not normal. I also suggest you get him professional help
Fabian
2015-05-19 08:11:55 UTC
Thats not good you should confront him about the pictures
Burnttoast
2015-05-13 09:14:01 UTC
Your husband probably hid them there. I'm sure your kid is innocent. Because (no offense) that would be gross.
****
2015-05-15 00:57:50 UTC
If you didnt confront him you would be just as bad as he is. Talk to the boy now!
?
2015-05-14 05:35:36 UTC
I hope for your sake he hasn't had any friends over.
?
2015-05-17 04:51:31 UTC
Look for him. See if he is hiding in a corner. and if you catch him, tell him right at that moment.
Ryder
2015-05-17 18:05:58 UTC
Talk to him and make him take a cold shower.
2015-05-12 20:40:47 UTC
You should probably get an explanation now
?
2015-05-14 09:53:17 UTC
I sure hope you're a troll
?
2015-05-18 10:18:04 UTC
He's got hormones, what you going to do about it.
Snowed
2015-05-15 04:05:10 UTC
Cover up more
?
2015-05-15 01:09:26 UTC
Kick him out
dead
2015-05-15 23:49:27 UTC
omg that's weird O.o
connor
2015-05-15 11:50:29 UTC
Ask him why eh did it.... Then you can say 'ia going to punish you' 👅
Raquel
2015-05-15 18:19:16 UTC
this is ****** up dude. you need to confront him subtly. and if you dont want to then just lock your door when you shower and dress and be very cautious
khurram
2015-05-14 16:42:21 UTC
Be normal, Dont react, dont ask him anything just take all the photos and burn them front of him.
2015-05-15 14:18:03 UTC
I fear you are a troll, but if you aren't... God help your son
Roserion
2015-05-15 18:20:26 UTC
Awww thats adorable. You all must be very hot.
william c
2015-05-14 21:35:49 UTC
That's a messed up kid!
yusuph
2015-05-14 12:05:29 UTC
Boy,that is serious,,,oh boy,I can't imagine that type of matter #NoAnswer
jemmanuel17
2015-05-14 11:14:38 UTC
Who gives a ****. Just throw them away. When he realises they are not there, he will learn his lesson.
2015-05-16 17:57:58 UTC
He needs help sweetheart
Nala
2015-05-14 15:50:07 UTC
This sound like the kid off of "Bates Motel" the series on CBS
arman
2015-05-14 22:02:28 UTC
when your son is 18+ than it is happen ,couse your socity is like that
?
2015-05-15 11:36:08 UTC
Sounds very creepy to me.
Truth
2015-05-16 19:11:56 UTC
change his name. william jefferson is a bad name for this type of behavior
Paypal
2015-05-17 12:56:25 UTC
Look at his web history if you find stuff guilty if not not guilty
isha
2015-05-16 05:46:56 UTC
let it go its all the age brought this you should show your motherly love to him and one more do't ever take sleeping pills
Lou
2015-05-14 17:52:08 UTC
There is a disease attacking your home. Call a therapist.
Tacos
2015-05-14 23:51:14 UTC
Nice one troll.
2015-05-15 21:43:37 UTC
wow haha omg this is just wooow i rekon this is the son asking this
Ramerica
2015-05-14 14:27:21 UTC
que bergas?! foo I could I see those pictures
2015-05-13 21:34:49 UTC
consider that your pics have been uploaded to the internet and right now someone is jerking off to your pics.
?
2015-05-14 15:16:26 UTC
There's a famous saying I can suggest: "Incest is best.".



if you're sexually active, have fun and go with it.
Max
2015-05-12 20:42:16 UTC
Uh oh
?
2015-05-14 20:56:40 UTC
Stop being a slut and act like sober mother
?
2015-05-16 03:17:17 UTC
why would he print them and put them in a envelope? why couldn't use a usb?
Kat
2015-05-15 13:08:19 UTC
def talk to him find out whats going on and get to the bottom of it
2015-05-17 19:14:56 UTC
lmao best troll i've seen all night thank you for that
Back W
2015-05-15 06:07:48 UTC
take the pictures from under his mattress and confront him immediately
marianlaughs
2015-05-15 12:17:42 UTC
Is his name Norman?
KENNETH D
2015-05-13 12:45:09 UTC
What you should do is tell him what you found and offer to let him take as many nude photos of you as he wants in any position he wants that will get it out of his system but no physical contact.
?
2015-05-15 02:35:03 UTC
Forget it
Matthew
2015-05-18 10:29:30 UTC
I think you should ask him if he would like to venture back where he came from:)
?
2015-05-14 05:24:54 UTC
Did this really happen? It seems to far fetched.
dchef701
2015-05-13 10:50:22 UTC
you need to confront him. he wants to have sex with you. also email me. i have some further advice that i can't post here.
?
2015-05-16 09:15:15 UTC
Wow.
Shlomo
2015-05-14 18:43:59 UTC
Stop putting your naked pix in his room, you are perverted.
2015-05-14 09:27:21 UTC
Confront him, this is not normal behavior and he needs help.
ben
2015-05-17 13:42:56 UTC
Confront him
?
2015-05-17 01:44:03 UTC
calm down.

then scold him.

he will not do this again.

if he stops then ok.

but if he still continues then see psychologist or psychatrist
Fred Q. Smitherman
2015-05-14 19:50:39 UTC
Invite him out to the woodshed then you and your husband or partner beat the crap out of him!
?
2015-05-15 11:08:52 UTC
I think I'm going to be sick
brianna
2015-05-19 16:00:24 UTC
okay well are you a man or a women?? And you should tell him with just you and him
NO N
2015-05-13 20:58:42 UTC
time for him to move out - sounds like to me.
?
2015-05-17 15:51:42 UTC
Is this the perverse kid flipping the script ? Get a good phyc doctor if it is true...
2015-05-15 08:10:52 UTC
Oh no, does not sound good! Speak to him about it
a
2015-05-15 16:56:39 UTC
Confront him
2015-05-17 14:44:14 UTC
pos ponte a coger con ellos
Jada
2015-05-16 14:49:23 UTC
Be on the lookout for him and if you see him confront him about it and ask him
?
2015-05-14 15:37:05 UTC
you should talk to him first and then send him to a psychiatrist because it could be a bigger issue, he is taking pics of you (his mother)
Barbara Doll to you
2015-05-14 04:11:41 UTC
I think this is what is called cirumstantial evidence.
muhib
2015-05-14 10:47:18 UTC
talk to your son very calm

try, if he talks.

if not g serious with him
Dimi
2015-05-15 09:51:32 UTC
Ask him if he wants you to strike some sexy poses.
Marcus
2015-05-16 05:42:10 UTC
This got be fake
?
2015-05-18 14:53:03 UTC
First is seems the question id fake



second It seems to me you are more curious about his sexsuality R U...? planning 2 ...?.....?????.
JOHN
2015-05-14 11:33:57 UTC
Stop it! You are getting me excited!
2015-05-12 17:07:29 UTC
Hes selling them to his mates to jerk to.
tom
2015-05-16 02:31:16 UTC
You want to post them or wouldn't have written this. We would be grateful so please do so and "teach" your son about women right. ;)
?
2015-05-14 06:40:41 UTC
Just ask him about it, he's not a criminal!
?
2015-05-16 12:44:38 UTC
You need to have a talk with him about that.
?
2015-05-12 20:53:22 UTC
start buying him pink clothes and turn him gay, it's your only option
?
2015-05-13 14:21:16 UTC
Eww.... That is just disgusting. Even for him... You should kill him for being gay... Disgusting. Utterly disgusting.
?
2015-05-17 21:42:41 UTC
U should beat him up i mean your his mom not his girlfriend he needs to stop.
chisum003
2015-05-13 05:45:35 UTC
take the pics and leave them out where he can see them and let him say something to you that is what i would do.
john
2015-05-12 19:25:11 UTC
It means you can noaw fist yourself! YAY!
HaveFaith
2015-05-14 16:11:11 UTC
Wow. You need to talk to him
crystal
2015-05-16 21:46:04 UTC
Let it go . It is just a phase.
Yahya Haider
2015-05-15 22:46:55 UTC
its fake tale. I won't say anything about it.
?
2015-05-14 09:51:20 UTC
Leave your clothes on when he around.
David
2015-05-15 07:09:09 UTC
if his name is Norman Bates i would be verry concerned
Ray M
2015-05-13 21:00:16 UTC
Do you think he spanks it to the pics? Does that turn you on?
Magna
2015-05-15 00:33:05 UTC
Woah bro. confront him.
2015-05-14 13:59:39 UTC
Ask him about it. Could they have been Photoshopped?
Nick
2015-05-14 21:05:06 UTC
http://www.gofundme.com/u6py85k
Abu
2015-05-15 09:55:41 UTC
give him more clear and better looking pics.

maybe he will get the message
?
2015-05-15 23:43:27 UTC
You have to sit him down and question him.
?
2015-05-17 23:21:19 UTC
Talk to him about it asap
2015-05-14 19:24:33 UTC
slam his head into the wall until he stops moving.
?
2015-05-13 11:50:30 UTC
Good question.
?
2015-05-14 17:02:44 UTC
someone is a little perv. omg, where else have the pictures gone?
?
2015-05-14 13:57:26 UTC
it is way of telling u he wants u sexually. it happens to most of us guys at some point
John
2015-05-15 04:59:00 UTC
u should take ur son seeing the psychologists, seriously
2015-05-15 11:00:46 UTC
hes a little pervert, he needs help.
Shorty back up
2015-05-15 22:31:12 UTC
Discard them if they appear again . then you know who did it
Mike T
2015-05-14 11:52:48 UTC
Is this the start of a porn film script??
?
2015-05-15 14:35:42 UTC
talk to him about it first dont assume until you know the facts
Yusuf
2015-05-14 02:59:10 UTC
wheres the evidence ? yu could be lying جعفر
?
2015-05-14 13:55:09 UTC
he is an adult these things interest him but if you are worried talk to him
Jon
2015-05-14 22:09:29 UTC
thats odd.... i mean, I would inquire about it in a nonjudgmental way.
Selva
2015-05-15 12:01:55 UTC
Your son like to sex with you ..so give your boobs to suck him ..
Mark
2015-05-14 17:54:45 UTC
That's nasty
alix
2015-05-15 03:53:41 UTC
I think your a troll.
?
2015-05-14 20:41:36 UTC
Oh my god! that's pretty bad
?
2015-05-18 10:53:14 UTC
what if he bought the pics from a third party?
Cee
2015-05-16 11:18:54 UTC
You have issues, lady.
lauren
2015-05-13 18:41:53 UTC
The best thing to do is to ask him.
lachlan
2015-05-12 19:27:49 UTC
walk into his room naked and let him jerk of
2015-05-13 17:50:48 UTC
thats odd, get him some help
2015-05-14 11:29:58 UTC
i would ask him how he got them and to tell the truth about why he has them
student
2015-05-13 13:53:56 UTC
omg
?
2015-05-13 11:15:49 UTC
JUST HAVE A LAUGH, I AM NOT SAYING HE IS RIGHT BUT BOYS WILL BE BOYS
Nikki
2015-05-14 11:41:48 UTC
Talk to him about it.
E
2015-05-16 10:16:07 UTC
scary
Omear
2015-05-17 02:30:14 UTC
its high time you two sit and talk
Robert
2015-05-15 10:00:43 UTC
OMG! JUST LET IT GO. He is just growing up!
lozza
2015-05-14 04:15:44 UTC
freak
Mister
2015-05-14 12:30:16 UTC
As long as he doesnt masturbate to it you should be okay.
Michael
2015-05-14 10:42:11 UTC
mom? why are you exploiting me on yahoo answers?!
andrea
2015-05-14 16:25:16 UTC
talk to him thats not normal
Mildred
2015-05-14 17:50:30 UTC
very creepy if he thinks of you that way
Rebecca
2015-05-16 19:55:04 UTC
Really hoping this is bait...
Doroteo
2015-05-13 23:42:14 UTC
phy in this situation
VERIFIED TOP CONTRIBUTOR
2015-05-16 18:38:31 UTC
completly normal...i bet hes sniffing your panties too. dont get drunk around him
2015-05-15 06:46:39 UTC
he has problems and is in need of therapy.
Ris
2015-05-15 12:51:40 UTC
wow lol
Sam
2015-05-13 13:56:10 UTC
Its not right and not OK
White
2015-05-15 02:07:02 UTC
the guys in the following was very right.
roy
2015-05-14 10:28:56 UTC
ask him about them. don't get angry just ask questions.
2015-05-14 00:27:38 UTC
It depends, are you hot?
Martha
2015-05-14 01:10:41 UTC
what exactly do you mean by "I am quite sexually active" ?? What has he been exposed to?
bob
2015-05-15 13:46:29 UTC
HES MESSED UP
Nat
2015-05-14 23:13:25 UTC
he is probably selling them for money.
2015-05-15 21:37:49 UTC
he probably needs to be satisfied.
Sharif Uddin
2015-05-15 20:00:48 UTC
oppss
?
2015-05-14 00:36:10 UTC
get him a gf ASAP
Josh
2015-05-14 18:55:11 UTC
uuuhh
kofabijaybusted
2015-05-15 22:10:56 UTC
chat with him and tell him the meaning of mother
?
2015-05-13 18:14:57 UTC
tell your husband so he can confront him
Anthony
2015-05-15 07:08:40 UTC
Bang him, suck his peter
Miranda
2015-05-18 08:32:21 UTC
bizarre
Jessica Lewis
2015-05-16 04:01:35 UTC
i have no idea how to answe this one
Anamaybella
2015-05-15 22:28:49 UTC
grosssss
jos
2015-05-15 09:40:32 UTC
talk to him and try to sort it out with him...
samantha
2015-05-14 08:22:13 UTC
just talk to him about it
?
2015-05-13 21:04:28 UTC
let it go dude
?
2015-05-15 11:11:36 UTC
is your last name lanister ?
2015-05-13 07:17:47 UTC
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Skye
2015-05-15 09:15:32 UTC
why do I get the feeling that this is fake?
?
2015-05-16 19:41:51 UTC
be cool its alright you also masturbate, he is just enjoying you should also
Anthea D
2015-05-14 06:57:40 UTC
tell him so you ease your mind
Ian
2015-05-14 02:00:44 UTC
tell me more, and say it slowly
shafiq
2015-05-14 06:50:32 UTC
Confront him and rape him
?
2015-05-16 06:08:30 UTC
will bad effect.
Taylor
2015-05-16 06:10:39 UTC
ask him about them
?
2015-05-16 19:38:55 UTC
why the hell are you snooping arond him in the first plase.
2015-05-14 18:17:29 UTC
kick him in the head (not the one with the face)
Gabby
2015-05-18 09:05:51 UTC
Lol look out!!!
W R
2015-05-14 22:08:47 UTC
seriously?
2015-05-14 07:29:50 UTC
disgusting.
Chris
2015-05-14 16:04:56 UTC
Can I see the pics... LOL
?
2015-05-14 23:02:05 UTC
Dont worry, your clearly a MILF!!!!!!
?
2015-05-14 18:32:32 UTC
confront him
Ashfaur
2015-05-17 05:01:10 UTC
its natural and you should accept it.
dominic
2015-05-16 13:55:46 UTC
ask him why he had them
Princess
2015-05-14 11:42:43 UTC
CONFRONT HIM AS SOON AS YOU CAN,,,, LET US KNOW
Kiko
2015-05-16 19:04:53 UTC
What the hell? Is he your step-son? If not then idk what's going on in that house
Mark
2015-05-13 10:47:42 UTC
confront him
2015-05-16 02:26:27 UTC
Be proud of him!!
alex
2015-05-16 13:48:52 UTC
this is funny
?
2015-05-18 19:55:04 UTC
What??
Brandon P
2015-05-14 21:08:24 UTC
this is so wrong, that its not funny
Morgan
2015-05-15 11:52:35 UTC
you should so hit that
Kirsty
2015-05-14 04:16:51 UTC
lol is this real
?
2015-05-14 12:49:23 UTC
D: Omg....!
?
2015-05-14 15:51:59 UTC
THEY ARE ON TO US
frankie
2015-05-13 16:57:12 UTC
no
?
2015-05-14 19:51:06 UTC
just kill him
Iris
2015-05-15 16:34:49 UTC
Right to the point...........You are both sick!!!
2015-05-14 03:54:37 UTC
stop being so sexy!
2015-05-15 07:22:15 UTC
TROLLLLLLLL
2015-05-17 02:24:09 UTC
maybe he's gay ?
?
2015-05-13 01:43:15 UTC
go die
?
2015-05-13 10:31:49 UTC
Get him laid...
?
2015-05-15 23:27:39 UTC
are you sexy
2015-05-15 17:07:11 UTC
Gross.
Ron
2015-05-17 00:37:00 UTC
Go f-u-c-k him.
Jennifer
2015-05-14 05:01:07 UTC
LOL
2015-05-14 15:08:04 UTC
GROSS GAY FAMILY
Jasmine
2015-05-18 03:17:19 UTC
Wtf. How does he get them? That's a little creepy.
Eva
2015-05-17 00:47:22 UTC
Try f-u-c-k-i-n-g him.
2015-05-14 13:06:00 UTC
sick kid
?
2015-05-15 14:39:38 UTC
Damn...
?
2015-05-14 15:37:01 UTC
B
Standard Human
2015-05-17 20:24:33 UTC
._.
tictic
2015-05-12 21:41:39 UTC
...........................
David
2015-05-17 22:39:21 UTC
???????????????????????????????????????????
zach
2015-05-15 11:22:50 UTC
FIRE FIRE FIRE FIRE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!~!!!!!!~!~!~!!!~~!!~!~~!!!~~!~


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