My Dad can be absolutely unbearable. I know I m fortunate, but this is starting to get ridiculous. I was moving some boxes with my dad and he told me to move them back, so I moved them back against the other boxes. He told me to move them back more, I said that s as far as they went. He told me I was an idiot and told me to put the boxes on top of other boxes to touch the wall. I moved one back and since it was a bit out of view, told him that it was against the wall. He then yelled at me to go to my room, so I hustled out of the area and didn t say anything. He then started shoving and throwing boxes at me before I could get out and I reached for his arms because he had another box and told him not to throw boxes at me and he told me to get my ******* hands off him and go to my room. As I left, he added that if I ever did that again I d never leave my room for a month and that I was a spoiled brat.
All of our exchanges are like this and I don t know what to do. I live with both my parents and when my mom s in the same room or whatever he s never as bad, though he still yells at me for stupid stuff. My mom and I rarely fight but when I do it normally stems off of "be nice to your dad". When he s not around, my mom and I get along great.
My dad is the breadwinner for the family by far as well as a lawyer. I m 15 and female. What, if anything, should I do?