I'm gonna suicide?Anyone has any last thoughts?[it's not a joke ppl]?

Question

I'm 15 and a girl.I live with my mom ].My dad is abroad with a *****.Anyways my mom is always scolding me and stuff and she says dirty words[this has been going on for6/7 months].She doesn't even listen to anything i say and then again i'm not over reacting cuz i have seen both of my parents cheating on each other.I hate my school and teachers.From last week i don't know why but my friends started to ignore me.When i talk to them they r rude to me.Nobody wants to listen to me or understands me. my boyfriend cheated on me[caught him 2 weeks ago].I can't even constraint on my studies and everybody want me to do every thing.I'm sick of my life and i hate it.
I want to get ride of my life
P.S. I'm from a wealthy family
And one of the populars in school

Answer 1

you may think tht suicide is gonna make everything better, but its not. youll be in heaven or hell looking at everyone one day wishing you never took your life away.

choose not to commit suicide. everyone has a time in their life where everything is going like hell

stay strong, in the end, everything will turn out good

''only time will tell''

Answer 2

No one had answered yet. I'll answer. I guess you are asking if any one has any last thoughts. Well ok usually it is the person committing suicide that has the last thoughts. You do mean " I'm gonna commit suicide. " Right ? It is way bad that you are hurting this much and it seems like the people around you don't care. I am sorry they are treating you like this. Your parents cheating on each other and saying bad words is not right. I can see how messed up things are for you. I am sorry. It seems like every one has turned against you even your friends. And to top it off your boyfriend cheated on you. He is an idiot. I don't like him. I am not sorry about that. You come from a wealthy family. I am un employed and homeless. I have been living in my truck sleeping on the front seat since March 2008. I can't sleep in the back because it is full of all my stuff. The rains came and ruined most of my things. I don't like my life either. It hurts. You are popular in school. I was the poor guy that got picked on and made fun of by the rich popular kids. That made me feel bad. I still feel bad some times. Oh I am sorry, I didn't mean I am mad at you because we had different social backgrounds in school. I was just sharing stuff with you. I used to drink and feel sorry for myself. I was real bad. Now I don't drink, but it hurts so much some times that I want to. My back hurts, my knees hurt, my neck hurts, I have a couple of bad teeth that are killing me and there is a big, like real big lump growing next to my belly button and I am afraid to get it checked out. Well thanks for the chance to talk to some one. I hope things get better for you. Bye.

Answer 3

Wealth does not bring happiness. Ask youself why it is necessary for you to be in the" in "group. The amount of social pressure applied to you to conform is not fair. So your choices are "take the cowards way out or stand up and be counted. So your mom doesn't listen to you. By the sounds of it she has more than enough problems to contend with. Try taking a deep breath; consider your mom amd all the drama's she has. Then ask yourself ; how would I handle them?. Thyen consider your peer group; they may have picked up on your vibes; they may also have been told misnomers by your ex bf. Ask yourself; how would I react in these circumstances? your personal circumstances ring true for many a young girl in today's society. If all the girls took the coward's way out then there would be no girls. again take a deep breath; consider your own circumstances. Dad@ mom split; neither setting a decent example; school getting you down; friends hard to find. Way I see it you have Three choices. 1 the cowards way; ps eternal damnation awaits suciciders[according to the gospels]2 wallow around in self pity and blame your folks,friends or anyone else you choose to nominate and becomer a loser you so ardently want to avoid becoming. 3 Step up and say "come on world I'm ready. I can still smell the scent of a pretty perfume. I can still sympathise with the homeless. I can still shed a tear for the victims of earthquakes.I can still walk in the park smell the pretty flowers.I can still wink at a handsome boy. You will have trials and tribulations throughout your life. If you choose to meet them with the right attitude then they won't seem insurmountable and you will succeed in all you attempt.School is an important part of growing up; don't be a victim; reclaim your tenacity and allow yourself to enjoy the experience with or with out your peer group. There are plenty of boys who would like to talk to you but are too afraid to because of the group you are associated with. good luck and I hope you feel better about yourself soon. pss try smiling every time you get out of or in bed. You will be supriesd the difference it will make.

Answer 4

Dear Tis,



Do you think suicide is fun?? Do you think that you're being fearless, decisive or powerful by deciding to take your own life?? Do you think that you're gonna make everyone sorry for ever hurting you, being rude to you, ignoring you, not caring about you blahblahblah... ??



If you're still alive and able to read this, I would like to tell you that the sorriest person would be you. Yes, your family, friends, classmates would grieve, cry and mourn a while, but then they sooner or later would have to get on with their lives because they have classes to attend, exams to pass, groceries to buy, chores to do, mistresses to visit etc etc etc. Because unless they decide to commit suicide too, their life must go on.



However, You, on the other hand, even as your short 15 years of life begins to flash past your eyes as you near your end, would start to remember all the other things that you had wanted to do, try or experience in your life before you died - getting married to the REAL man of your dreams, graduating from college, going bungee-jumping, setting the latest fashion trends, speaking out against pollution, raising some kids... etc etc etc - and you would finally realize that what you REALLY WANT TO DO IS LIVE.



The pain you feel is temporary and will pass. If you ever doubt that your life is any good, just visit a homeless shelter, hospital or soup kitchen and your problems will look so tiny in comparison. You CANNOT change the behavior of your Dad, your Mom, your friends, your boyfriend, even by killing yourself. You CAN change YOU. Mom being rude and abusive? Thank her for showing you what you don't want to be when you grow up. Stop focusing on her naggings and start APPRECIATING the fact that she's feeding you, giving you allowance and giving you a roof for your head! Friends ignoring you? Go after them and find out what's wrong! Who knows maybe they're hiding a deeper pain like yourself. Boyfriend cheating? Decide not to let your happiness depend on any other person but yourself.



Thanks for staying alive to read this.

Answer 5

What does your popularity or wealth have anything to do with what your going through. Honestly hunny this is life as cruel as it can be there is good to it. I think you need to take a deep breathe and really think about what your saying. If your family is well off then i would seek the best kinda help i could find. If not then call up your dad and see if the grass is greener on the other side. If you hate school and life do independent studies and focus on yourself! I think everyone goes through these feelings at one point or another you just gotta wait it out!

Answer 6

I'd be happy to try and listen when things bother you. I'm a mom of 4 grown kids. You need a breather. Come to South Dakota for a couple weeks and we can talk and make you feel all better again.



I've known those who took their own lives over no other than drugs taking over their sanity.

Life has it's ups and downs, but to just want to end it before trying other things is a cop out.

Really I will listen if you need an ear.

You can also email me.

Hang in there life is worth living.

Answer 7

Don't do it!

If your mom is the cause of your unhappiness, tell on her. Tell your school, tell the school's psychologist, tell the nurse, tell your teachers, tell anyone of importance who will hear you and rectify the situation immediately. I am sorry to hear that you hate your school, but for the time being, making a report there on your mother may be your best course of action.



Never take your own life. If you are contemplating this decision, pick up the phone, call 911 or your emergency services number and get to a hospital/qualified professional to be treated right away.



stay strong, all the very best to you.

Answer 8

Take some time to think of the beautiful things in the world. You have money and you can get everything you want. Go shopping! Don't think of your ex who cheated on you. For your parents, as long as they're happy, learn to be happy for them too. Acceptance could help you move on and live with your life. If your friends are ignoring you, think of the reasons why they're doing it. Change the wrong attitudes that you may have. You can still find more friends as long as you're nice and friendly. Love yourself.

Answer 9

DON'T. I understand how hard it can be at home (my parents fought a lot as well), but you have so much more life ahead, and it won't always be like that. I am listing numbers that you can call to talk to someone, and am asking you to PLEASE do that before taking any action. Please. You have friends that would miss you. Your parents clearly have issues, but they can still love you, even if they suck at showing it. Don't let their poor decisions and bad behavior control your life. In so little time, you can be out of there, and make a better life for yourself. Don't throw that away. Call the numbers I am posting in the sources, and talk this over. WAIT. You aren't alone. People care. Call, ok?

Answer 10

Well hun, I hope this is a joke. But to be honest your story sounds like mine growing up. I am 25 yrs. old now and I have my own family and doing absolutely wondeful. Things WILL get better, it just doesn't always get better exactly when and how you may want. Be patient and always try to find something to smile about. Open the bible maybe you will find some answers. You can email me anytime to talk. I am usually up late.

Answer 11

Baby girl your 15 and your life will get better,go talk to someone.Find a something to keep your busy,work with a old folks home,a day care center just get in to life.No one but you can change the way you feel,don't let others put you down,keep your chin up and know YOU ARE THE BEST PERSON IN THE WORLD then act like it.

Answer 12

Talk to me through email if you want,just don't do it. My freshmen year of highschool a friend did this and I don't think our circle of friends ever got over it. If you need someone to talk to I'm here. And I promise I'll care. And I promise you matter, you matter to people you may not even know yet. Your future is in front of you, seize it. Use your parents as examples of what not to be. And if those friends ignored you for no reason, ef them. Make new ones.

If you dont want to talk to me, talk to them 1800SUICIDE , thank you postsecret. They helped me, maybe they can help you.

Answer 13

I Am Going To Suicide

Answer 14

you made a yahoo account today so you can tell us about you committing suicide. if you are going to troll, do it right and set your settings to private.



if this is real, i am sorry you are going through this but suicide is not the answer. talk to your guidance counselor at school tomorrow. as bad as it may seem, it will get better, i promise

Answer 15

at one point in my experience, I started saying in my head, "well if those people are gonna make me feel like this or ignore me, then **** THEM!"



I had a girlfriend who swore her love to me and was half engaged who cheated on me with my best friend. I was far away at school while she was back home, and they both lied to me for 6 months in my face as they started spreading **** about me back home while i was away. I found out soon enough and she visited me at school just to tell me that she doesnt care about me but she cares about that guy. rub it in my face she did. then i took time off school and went home only to find that they spread **** about me that i was the betrayer blah blah and lost pretty much all my old friends other than a few. Even them half ignored me cos they were still friends with that other dude. I was trying to kill myself and as a last hope i called my parents, and they didnt even hear me but just simply told me to go hurry up and kill myself (without even me mentioning the thoughts of suicide) and at the same time my parents seriously contemplating divorcing and leaving the States to where they are from and leaving me alone in the States. I call my sister and the first thing she says was not "hey" but "just go kill yourself already" then hung up. Lots more happened like chain reaction as if God planned it. the first time i tried, it was seriously like a few seconds that saved me. My friend who was 1000s of miles away somehow got worried and called my school. They unlocked the door to my room as i was about to kill myself and knocked it out of my hand. After a couple of times, I started thinking wtf, why am i wasting myself cos people around are as shitty as they can possibly be. **** them. I'll show them who's on top and make them realize they are nothing better than horse ****.



Then i met a girl who stood up for me and who fell in love with me. Who ended up dumping me and did some awful humiliating dehumanizing things to me cos she went to college and found a new guy just cos she could be a total ***** while she knew i was going through some rough ****. And my family being as shitty as they have been at the same time. With no friends left back home.



You're 15? come on... You're popular in school? You must be pretty. Don't let the world miss out on you just cos the tiny portion of the world thats shitty that happens to be around you makes you feel bad.

Answer 16

Seems like you have it tough. But suicide is too extreme. Don't do that. PLZ. Just be happy you have life. And maybe find friends that like you for who you are and not what you have. Idk. I might not be of any help to you but I had to give this a try.

Answer 17

G'day Tis,



Thank you for your question.



You need to seek help now. Counselling can help you get through it.



Regards

Answer 18

sorry you think life sucks ..I'll pray for you ..and can you go to a church for help or fine a teacher you can trust to talk too or teen center , you can go to columbiamissourian.com/stories/2007/.../reaching-teens-need - Cached theymy be able to help or go to www.suicideteen.com they can help you please try to fine help because I cant from were im at

Answer 19

thats a terrible reason to kill yourself

all that stuff is changeable

and your not SUPPOSED to like school or your parents!

Answer 20

life will get better for you when you grow older....when your 18 you can move out and stuff

Answer 21

DEAR YOUNG LADY, PLEASE DO NOT DO THIS, HOWEVER YOU ARE FEELING RIGHT NOW, WILL CHANGE IN FIVE MUNUTES, LIFE IS WORTH LIVING, BUT SOMETIMES THINGS GET TOUGH, SO GET TOUGHER, READ THIS, THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO CARE ABOUT YOU, I KNOW IT HURTS, BUT THERE IS NO PERFECT WAY WRITE BACK JUST ANSWER IN ADDITIONAL DETAILS PLEASE DO NOT HURT YOURSELF OK always your friend

Answer 22

listen to this(link in source) plz listen

Answer 23

I'm sorry you feel that no one cares for you, but I must argue that you are wrong. The Bible says that God and Jesus love you and want to have a relationship with you.



Jesus loves you. The Bible describes Jesus as a man that showeth himself friendly, and "a friend that sticketh closer than a brother" (Proverbs 18:24)



God loved you enough to sacrifice his Son (Jesus) for you: "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life" (John 3:16).



Why is Jesus so important? Because without him there is no hope in this life, or the next. Yes, there is a Hell, and if you don't have a relationship with Jesus Christ, that is your destination when you die.



To understand this, you must understand God's law. God is a perfect being, and He cannot tolerate sin. What is sin? Sin is falling short of God's standards (perfection).

The Bible says: "For all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God" (Romans 5:12).



You may think "I'm not a bad person, I've never hurt anyone." But let's be honest. If you murder someone, you are a murderer. By the same logic, if you've ever stolen something (even something small) that makes you a thief. If you've ever told a lie (even a small one) you are a liar. I fail this test, and I have a hunch you do too.



So, if God cannot tolerate any sin, and we've all sinned, we're all destined to go to Hell. God says of those who did not receive him "these shall go away into everlasting punishment..." (Matthew 25:46).



But, God is a loving God. He provided a way for us to be with Him. There's more to Matthew 25:46: "but the righteous into life eternal."



How do I become righteous? By trusting in Christ to save me. No one else can save you from Hell and your sins. Only Jesus Christ: "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved" (Romans 10:9).



There are 4 "steps" to being saved and entering a relationship with God and Jesus Christ:

1. Admit you are a sinner: "As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one" (Romans 3:10)

2. Be willing to turn from sin (repent): "God...now commandeth all men everywhere to repent" (Acts 17:30)

3. Believe that Jesus Christ died for you, was buried and rose from the dead: "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation" (Romans 10:9-10)

4. Through prayer, invite Jesus into your life to become your personal Savior, and "a friend that sticketh closer than a brother": "For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved" (Romans 10:13).



An example of what to pray (you must truly believe this from your heart):



--Dear God, I am a sinner and need forgiveness. I believe that Jesus Christ shed His precious blood and died for my sin. I am willing to turn from sin. I now invite Christ to come into my heart and life as my personal Savior.--



In doing this myself, I have a friend that sticketh closer than a brother. I hope you do now as well. He has never forsaken me, and I know he won't forsake you. I'll pray for you, but my prayers will not help you get to heaven. It is a choice you must make yourself. Please, don't wait until it's too late.



You may think "Why should I believe in all this Bible stuff?"

Because: "All scripture is given by inspiration of God" (2 Timothy 3:16) This word inspiration is translated from a Greek phrase that means "God breathed." Look at the wonderful world around you. It cannot have happened by chance. It was created by my God, and he desires for you to give yourself to him.



"The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good" (Psalm 14:1).



If you have accepted Christ, it is important for you to get involved in a local church in your area. They will encourage you as you begin to get to know Jesus. I'd encourage you to call a pastor in your area, and tell them you just got saved and are looking for a church. They'll help you from there.



Love in Christ,



Monica

Answer 24

NICE!!! The 1st was really funny, lol

Answer 25

a couple words of advise before you take your life



its not "im going to suicide" its :"im going to commit suicide"