my husband's step father is attracted to me, and has made sexual advances to me,how can i save this family

Question

my husband's step father is attracted to me, and has made sexual advances to me,how can i save this family

Answer 1

I had a similar situation with a brother-in-law. To save the family embarressment I told my husband and since then he never leaves me in the room alone with him. Ignore the advances or if they get too bad, just say no.

Answer 2

It is not up to you to save your family. I am assuming you told your husban's step father your not interested, and being the prick that he is I am sure he has disreguarded it? You need to let you husband know you feel unfortable around your step father. If needs be let your husband know you don't want to be in the same room together. Your husband should understand why so it would be best to be honest with him. Let him know that you don't want anything harsh to come of it. Pretty soon your step father will expose himself for the true bastard he is and keep telling him to take a hike.

Answer 3

Well you could talk to your husband about it, you probably should. At the same time your husband will probably be really pissed off because not only are you his wife BUT his step dad is trying to be unfaithful to his mother as well! Thats enough to make anyone want to kick some ones ***! Before you talk to your husband you might want to try to handle it on your own. Next time you catch yourself alone with your husbands stepfather you should let him know that it makes you feel uncomfortable and you would hate to have tell your husband about how he behaves towards you. Ask him niceley to stop.

Answer 4

first of all, tell your husband! then stay away from your husband's step father because you keeping this or allowing it to continue is more problems waiting to happen. the only way you will save this family is by doing what is right and that means giving your husband's step father the clue of staying away.

Answer 5

Confront the issue head on and tell your husband what happened before you do. He should be there when you tell his step-father to back off! He might believe he is only teasing, and maybe he truly meant it that way..but if it makes you uncomfortable as you sound..it needs to be dealt with openly.

Answer 6

Tell the step-father NO now, no tomorrow. You need to speak with your husband, and hopefully he will support this

Answer 7

The step father obviously is not worried about the family.

Why are you protecting this creep. He's out of line, not you.



Tell your husband, I hope he beats the crap out of him. Never speak to the step father again, treat him like the scum that he is.

Answer 8

First person you worry about is yourself then your husband...that is the famliy. This guy is just a jerk. NO threats to him no nothing, tell your husband straight out...what the guy did, and that you refuse to be alone with him.. he should understand.

Answer 9

Talk to your husband. And you arent the one who is doing bad to your family, is your husbands stepfather!! u should really talk to your husband before it gets worst.

Answer 10

You need to let your stepfather know he needs to cut it off because you ain't cool with it and you doubt your husband would be cool with it. If he keeps going tell your husband!

Answer 11

try just joking around to everyone about it, bring it out in the open and diffuse the entire sitch. just make him feel like a fool without embarrassing him totally. just say "i know you think i'm cute" in front of everybody and laugh. you don't have to act like it is some heinous act or sin or anything that brings discomfort and tension, that'll just fuel the fire and upset your hubbs, who is probably getting jealous anyway. if he sees you are laughing it off the tension will evaporate and everyone can joke about it, leaving pervo with his own twisted feelings...how perfect can it get? heh heh. i'm so evil

Answer 12

tell your husband, he will take care of it. if he doesnt then leave him for the step father, he is the real man. ahahh. no but seriously, umm. Say there is no way EVER i will EVER like you or be with you. So drop it now please before you ruin our family.

Answer 13

there is no family here if there was then he wouldn't have done that. Just tell your man and stay away from them. If you tell them what's going on then you are probably gonna look like the bad one. Don't risk it.

Answer 14

I think u sould better discuss this matter with ur husband with out any hesitation

Answer 15

tell ur husband and he will handle the rest.thats what husbands r 4!!!

Answer 16

Definately let your husband know.

Answer 17

Hate to say it, but you need to say something to your mother. I'd say to talk to your husband, but he might want to kick his a** and that's probably not productive.

Answer 18

Tell your husband and tell that dirty old man to leave you alone! Yuck!

Answer 19

tell your husband

Answer 20

tell him to stop or you will tell the rest of the family

Answer 21

tell your husband's MOM.

Answer 22

report him or call 1-800-help

Answer 23

tell your husband!

Answer 24

try to tell ur hubby

Answer 25

you need to tell someone because that is WRONG

Answer 26

tell him to chill, you have morals....