Girls please help .. strange problem?

Question

I am 19 years old boy .. I have a strange problem .. I am living in an arabic commuinty ..my parents have been divorced since my childhood ... I have short stature and feminine character as my mother raised me in a women only family ...the problemhas begun since two weeks.. my mother want my to wear hijab ( a traditional clothes for arabic girls ) i can't refuse ..
.. as for the arabian community .. the official puberty age is 21 years ...
she wants to dress me like that pic

http://photos.azyya.com/store/up1/080401172707gQzE.jpg

should i obey her till i reach 21 .. and why she is making me look like that ?

or may be she is afraid of any Harassment ??
please help me

Answer 1

mothers will be mothers. she is just being overprotective which quite common in single parents, or people who lost close members of their family. But i am a little confused with the dress up like a girl thing.



I think you should talk to her since you obviously don't want to dress up like a girl. Make her realize that you are a grown up man now. 19 is quite old... definitely old enough to make your own choices. Talk to her, be firm. Don't be disrespectful. Its time to man up bro.

Answer 2

Hmmmm well I mean your a dude, you should try to explain to her. As for what country you live in most of them the legal age to do as you please is 18. Your mother is maybe going a little overboard- okay a lot. Stand up for yourself.

Answer 3

i think u should let ur mother down easy just tell her that ur a boy and not a girl and u will get made fun of

Answer 4

Talk to someone else older that you can trust, maybe their opinion could help talk your mother out of putting you through that.

Answer 5

if it is custom in your religion or culture, thats how it is, buti do feel sorry for you, and wish it wasnt so

Answer 6

if you want to define yourself as a man, then you ought to do so......