I wish i had all the money in the worl to help out my parents.?

Question

I am a 22 year old, married going on two years, no kids. There is no such way of how to say this in pretty writting so im just going to say this. My parents are in their late 40's. My dad had heart surgery about 5 months ago.....he is currently not working copllecting disability and my mother is disabled due to an injury at work when i was a child. My parents are not doing good...everytime i go to visit i feel very sad bc i see how their living situation is...and its not pretty. Im the youngest and im currently working for a vocational school as a financial aid officer...i try to help my parents in what ever i can but i feel like such a failure bc i can never give them enough bc i am married and my hubby has a daughter which he provides support for her and on top of that our bills.......i really feel guilty at times but i just wish i had all the money in the world to give them and get them out of their situation. My heart hurts everytime i see them bc i wish i can do much more i truly do wish that. My brothers and sister are not successful at all my only sister has 2 children at 24 yrs old and married but shes on public assistance she can barely support her self and children she can never help out my parents. Im letting u guys know all of this so that probably something good can come out of all of this. when i go visit my parents i come back home crying each time bc of their poverty situation. My hubby tells me not go all the time to my parents house bc it hurts him to see how i get when i come back home it truly takes me a couple of days to feel better .............but i need help what can i do to help them out a little more and how can i feel better about the situation....anyone ???????????? ;(

Answer 1

If it is really bad and you can't get any money from the government, you could try asking churches for donations or hold a fund raising event. It is hard to make money these days and just know that you are doing your best. Don't stop visiting them just because it makes you feel sad because seeing you may be what helps them the most. To see that people love and care about you is just as important as money. I hope things look up.

Answer 2

are you all able to rent or own a larger home where you can all live?



i know where u feel i too did the same and sad thing you painted my picture when i was 22 my dad had open heart my mom is disabled by her feet legs and now is blind. to help out i moved back home and elped out. but diffrence i am not married also i have no kids. sit talk to your husband see if you all can get a larger home together have them down size and move in if so lay some ground rules and hope they can get better and on there feet.

Answer 3

It sounds like you are a very good daughter. When you cook make up some extra meals to take them. I used to get the inexpensive plastic dishes and make up meals that I could freeze. They can just take one out each night for dinner.

Answer 4

u r doing the best you can. keep it up :)

they appreciate it very much!