How could I accept this part of life...?

Question

So recently, I've posted a post about my mom calling me a skank, a betch, a ho, and everything in between to ALL OF HER FRIENDS and I've said I'm never going to talk to her ever again (giving her the silent treatment) until she apologizes. Then, she was going to say it was my fault ... WHEN I DID NOTHING and she said I started this... Out of no where. And now she's touching me on the shoulders and calling me to go shopping with her. I'm still ignoring her though. But I how do I tell her that I don't want her to bother me or in my life ever again until she forgives me WITHOUT SPEAKING TO HER. (Also, I do not answer her calls, she leaves messages... in case you're wondering) Also, you know you were me, how could you ever forgive YOUR MOM for calling you a betch, ho, skank, tramp, etc... to all of her friends... I know I will never forgive her until she says sorry but she still say its my fault when I DID NOTHING. Don't tell me to forgive her and move on when knowing what she called me.

Answer 1

You probably just need to get her attention. Just say that since she called you a skank that you've been studying it some and that you think that is the direction you want to take your life. Tell her that you're older now and would like to adopt that lifestyle and you want her to give you some pointers.

Answer 2

Don't worry. I would never tell you to forgive her. I haven't talked to my mom in three years and I never will. That was so awful for your mom to say those things about you to her friends. Personally, I don't think I could ever forgive her even if she apologized. She should apologize to you in front of her friends and say she didn't mean it and you should tell her that if it ever happens again that the two of you are finished.

Answer 3

u dont have to tell her anything just keep give her the silent treatment she will get it but have to forgive your mom u need her think about it who feeds u

who cooks for u

who washs your outfits

who pays the bills and the rent and who buys u things when u need it drives u arould see u need her

Answer 4

thats extreamly harsh of your mom to call you! probably embarassing too! the best way i can think of is to keep ignoring her... she will come around... All moms do. they hate to be shunned out of our lives... its like their job to give us... especially girls a hard time!

hopefully you guys can work things out!

♥

Answer 5

Best way is to write her a letter and tell her how you feel... so you dont have to face her or talk to her...

Answer 6

*********************************************************************FIRST PLEASE NOTE, I AM DIC K HUR TZ (they deleted that acc ount((because of the name, obviously!))...so I am now Elmer Fudd, and r e-added you. And Hi!

You may want to remove the contact (and also fan) called "NO NAME" ! ((thats what yalh oo did to me (aww!) )).

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