Need help with dealing with this? Bad break up with my live-in bf & he kicked me out.?

Question

I'm with my mom now. Last week, we agreed that I will give her $1000/month to help me save up for a new dep for new apt. I got paid last Fri but my car stopped working Fri & I had to borrow my mom's car to get to work. The shop says nothing's wrong but it will cost me $193 anyway which I paid. We return Fri to get the car but it doesn't start!The sign says that we will have to wait until 7AM on Mon when they open again! 2day, the shop called & said that it will cost me another $160 for a crank sensor but it will be ready 2day. I didn't give my mom any $ this week because I thought she understood my situation. I really didn't know how much $ more my car would cost. I told her of the past few weeks of doc visits, psych visit, scripts for 5 meds to get thru this ordeal. I don't have a lot of $ left I live so far from work & I put in $50+ of gas/week. Shes LIVID that I didn't give her $. She said that if I had a spine, I wouldn't need all these doc visits & no wonder my bf left me.

Answer 1

very sad situation, belive your mom loves you, also right now you need her. save your money, give her an i owe u. pay her what you can get car fixed, see you doctor. and save untill you have at least 6 month salary saved. so that means what you get paid per month x 6. untill you have that do not leave. take care, good luck

Answer 2

Well unless you have a preexisting mental illness there is no need for all those meds to help you 'get through this' in fact, it's a dependency issue...are you a recreational drug user or drinker by chance? Your neediness could very well be why your boyfriend left you. What to do? Work on yourself and don't give money to your mom to save for you that's part of your problem. Learn to be responsible.

Answer 3

sounds like youre at the bottom of the barrell... time to get on top of things... you need Jesus in your life or you can only go down the tubes... when your live like a whore... as i did... you open yourself to a whores reward!!! blunt but it is the truth and i personally want the truth ... whether it hurts or not because it is the only way to freedom. i wont kid you once you have had sex it is not something you can easily walk away from because your body wants it... plain enough? so the guy kicked you out ,,, mabybe he did you a favor in the long run... make yourself good enough for you... dont live to need a man to make you feel good enough or valuable... you are valuable as you are... God loves you just the rotten way you are and will work in your life to make it worth living and enable you to be able to be useful to others...

Answer 4

I hate to say this, but don't ever live with your boyfriend. Its not good and it usually does not last. If he will not marry you don't move in with him. He is telling you he is not committed to you. Learn from this and DON"T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE TWICE!!You where not being responsible when you moved in with him and now you are paying the consequences. Don't blame your Mother, this is your fault.