my bfs sister...?

Question

we were at thanksgiving dinner when my bfs cousin came over w/ her daugther my bfs sister was swingging her around by her arms and throwing her in the air ( the little girl is about 2 and a half) when my bfs other sister came over to play w/ her too the younger one ( shes 15 ) told the little girl to tell the other one "shut up fatty i hate you" i started to yell at all of them
not 10 mins later the little girl was going around saying "i hate you" and then my bfs sister picked her up and dropped her on her head because she was swinggin her by her arms again

when i told my bfs sister she will never touch my bf and i's kids she got mad and and is still mad at me...his mom wasn't thrilled either but got over it

i think i had all right to say that..my bf agreed
what do you think??

Answer 1

i agree, the 2 year old is very impressionable at this stage in her life and its important to teach her respect for others. And shes 15 she should know better by now





i think you did the right thing.

- Drew

Answer 2

Not fairly. All you probably did was once upload sme gasoline to an already explosive trouble. It needed to blow ultimately and it simply so occurred with you round. What you mentioned was once the reality however she had to get a few braveness up advert inform him herself or be the little scared kitten she referred to. It feels like she was once simply looking ahead to the correct second do it and also you handiest offered that outlet and it occurred. Sometimes in relationships, a few humans publish with slightly an excessive amount of with a view to maintain the connection and/or are simply petrified of clash. A little clash in a courting is well so what occurred final night time was once sure to occur besides so now they may be able to transparent the discipline and begin anew. I severely doubt you triggered any truly harm, however actually truthfully did them a few well so neither has to stroll round on eggs. Dont fear approximately them an excessive amount of, theyll get better i their love is correct and be all right.

Answer 3

WOW! What did she do after she dropped her? I've seen people do that (swing their kids) and the kids loved it. But I also knew the child wasn't going to be dropped. Accidents do happen I guess. But sounds like she wasn't being that careful eather. I guess if she didnt appologize much then I would be angry too. And you have every right to say what you said. To me it sounds like she lets her kids say what they want to and they are very rude. So I see why you don't want her with your kids. They may come home cussing and with bumps and bruises. I guess you could talk to her and explain to her why you feel this way. If she will ever be around your kids she will treat them the way you want and not like she does to her kids.

Answer 4

You're marrying into a great family.



I don't think you should have said that or yelled at them...because that was kinda rude and it wasn't really your place to tell someone what should be done with their kid.



But you're smart to watch your future kids around these wackos.

Answer 5

You had every right, sounds like his family is weird.