What is an excuse me and my sister can tell my parents so they wont trip a lot on our decision of moving out?

Question

Im 20 and my sister is 22. We both are currently part time workers and full time students BUT we are getting to a point where we cant focus anymore on school or learning how to live and be independent anymore because our parents treat us like little kids that dont know how to do anything without there help.
They take my pay check and they want to see how much i make and they will deposit it in my bank but im not allowed to take a penny from it without there permission, all d mails that come for me they open up and read it & i never get 2 even see them (i dont even know i get mails but i know i get a lot). Get yelled at 4 everything and anything, too much pressure about studying and its not really because they want 2 c good on us more likely because they want 2 be able 2 compete with other parents., cannot have a friend of opposite sex (if i get a phone call or text message then they will do whatever they can 2 be around and listen what d conv. is), always talk about getting me married in an arranged manner.
When it comes to my sister she is even scared of my parents now because they hit her all the time, same problems like i mentioned above, keep track on miles and if she has any money over $10 in her purse they steal it from her and when she has money in the savings they make excuse to take it outta there.
They're really strict on us and both of us r just tired of this!!
When we move out we dont want them 2 hate us or betray us because we still love them but we just need to learn to be independant and have a better life than prison. So what can be a good reason to tell them!
We already found an apt., estimated expenses and everything financially if God allows will work out all we need now is them not 2 be too pissed and an excuse 2 tell dem y v r moving out!
Im getting a full time job so financially we would be broke or nothing. Again all in God's hands! Even after all this i pay for my J.C tuition on my own only bill i have my parents pay is credit card and its not like i use a lot or anything..The reason i let them pay it is because i dont get the statements they do, in that case let them pay for it. but like i said i dont depend on them even now except for food and housing.
My sister and me can cook a little so food shouldnt be a problem and paying credit card is not hard either because we're not the expensive type where v spent money on unwanted stuff on go after brand names!!

Answer 1

Doesn't matter what, you can't live like this.you need to move out.rules and other commen restriction is good,but this is kind of prison.they never happy and never able to let you move out.so just do it.don't talk much.action is stronger than saying.do it.rest of leave it on God.you lucky you have sister with you.later if they understand than they talk to you.either leave it alone.some day works out.don't worry much,but never forget them and always love and respect them.[only not this kind of things]when kids grown up parents should be friends with them,so both side happy with out any tension.i have to tell you you both good kids.some kids just move out with out thinking.when you out call them every week,even they very very angry.just say we love you.if they don't talk send mail every week.

Answer 2

You are Indian right?



First open your own bank account that they don't know about and have the money go there. Second move out and just tell them you are moving out because you are such and such age and need to be independent. Lastly don't ever let family hit you. If you think you are going to get hit you get in their face and yell with spit flying like 6 inches from their face. If they make a motion to strike you you pull your hand back behind your head into a fist. This signals that you will knock them out if they hit you. Do not put up with physical abuse. People who hit will continue to do so unless they get their *** whooped. I know they are family but there comes a point where you have to say "if you hit me I will knock you the f out"

Answer 3

When do you appreciate someone? When they do something that is unusual,not ordinary, and not



their nature. Isn't it so?



For example, when a wicked person doesn't create a problem then you appreciate them. Or,



when somebody you think is not good does a good act, then you appreciate them. Also, when a



good person does something extraordinary, then you appreciate them. If a child made you a



cup of tea, you would appreciate it, but if a mother made the same cup of tea, you would not



likely appreciate it because it is a normal act for her. In the same way, you appreciate



getting a ride from someone you don't know, but you don't necessarily appreciate it from a



bus driver.



In all these cases, those acts are temporary, out of character, or not their nature. So when



you appreciate someone for something, you imply that it is not the way they are usually.



it means that it is not in their nature, and that is why they want to be appreciated. If it



is not coming from their nature it is an imposed act. So when you appreciate someone you



simply imply that it is not their nature, it is not the way they usually are. It is a rare



act or quality. Appreciation implies a sense of separateness or distance, so watch out when



you appreciate someone!

Answer 4

just tell ur parents that we and my sister want to move out not far try moving maybe 10 mins away at first if u still don't like being that close maybe after ur parents get used to u not living with them then move to the city ur 20 yrs old its time for u to have fun! everybody need to leave the nest! just be calm when u tell them they should let u move ur adults ur over 18!

good luck

xx

Answer 5

First of the two you and your sister are adults. the undeniable fact which you enable your mom and dad to hold on on your financial company debts is YOUR faults no longer your mom and dad. Being adults you will have them taken off your debts. you may desire to start paying your guy or woman mastercard invoice to envision credit on your call. As adults you do no longer want their permission to circulate out of their residing house. the sole ones who're combating you and your sister are you and your sister.