Fathers Day Dad freakout...help?

Question

Well I'm sitting alone in my room now because my dad freaked out on me. Umm basically what happened was my dad just got done shopping with my mother and my mom called up and asked if I need some bolts for my car and I said sure thank you and I told my dad happy fathers day. Well when they got home I was playing a videogame for a moment and I've been playing them alot since I was 12. My dad came and screamed up the stairs saying hey what are you doing. I said playing a video game. My dad says how long till your down. I said like 10 mins. He said why. I said I'm finishing something up. Well then he was freaking out downstairs apparently and I was down in 5 mins cause my game finished early and my dad was like your game finally done? and I was like yea. He started being a jerk to me then and treating me like a dog And I toledm dad stop being so mean. Well then after saying im not going to take your crap I walked in side and he was telling me now you can be on your own dont ask me for anything because your not going to treat me like a dog. and he told my mom shes not to help me with anything or hes done with her too. So I'm in a pickle here I dont know what to do now im not allowed to even eat family food in the house anymore. Please tell me why my dad is being like this on fathers day and what I should do. Ps I did get him a fathers day gift with my brother so that cant be the reason.

Answer 1

If my step-dad did that, i tell him to get ******. Seriously, who the **** does this guy think he is? You have done nothing wrong! Or you have, but it cant have been that bad. Jesus, this guy needs to get real and stop being such a douche. Sorry if you get annoyed that im kind of dissing your dad, but i personally wouldnt take any of my step-dads ****.

Answer 2

No offense but I think you sound like an ungrateful lazy kid and he's sick of it. I would bet all you do is sit around playing video games or working on your car, eating their food, and you are never around your family. Father's day is not about your dad being nice to you, you need to put some effort into your relationship with your dad. Big deal, you said Happy Father's day and got him a gift. What do you do the rest of the year? A parent who cuts off their kid from household stuff like food feels like they are being taken advantage. I think once you guys calm down go talk to your dad. Seriously.

Answer 3

Father's Day is normally a day that is set aside for the entire family to do something together. At least, that is what I did with my children. I have been a father for over 30 years, and I don't remember ever being angry on this day. Instead of being defensive, if I were you, I would consider heading back to my father and apologizing for what I said. See if I could do something with him. I myself, spent a lifetime at odds with my father, but no matter what, I always wished him Happy Father's Day on Father's Day, and would later tell him that we needed to get together and do something. You have to set this day aside, to forgive your father for whatever wrongs you think might have been committed by him to you, and make an effort...a hard effort to do something with him. Lay aside the videogames, working on the car, whatever. Father's Day is recognition of the person who has made a concerted effort to be there for you since the day you were born, that is what this day is all about. And yes, if in this screwed up culture, your father may be a stepfather, so what? That person should still be there for you, no matter what you may think that person's faults are. A parent is a parent, no matter how they got there. Acknowledge that fact with a little attention. Bill Cosby summed this day up a long time ago with a small little story:



"I wanted a son. You know, a son to carry on the family name. A son to be proud of...yes, that is my son. Yes, my son. My son the doctor. Is that your son? Is that YOUR son who just made the touchdown? Yes, that is my son. So...you take the time to throw the ball around with him. Show him the finer points of the game, make sure he knows the correct 3-point stance. And during the game, after he just made the touchdown, and the television crew comes up to him to congratulate him, and ask him how he got so good, he stands in front of the camera and says, "Hi Mom!"."



That is the bane of the father. So you see, we father's feel that when our children admire us, and tell us that we are okay, and that we count for something in their lives. We feel like we have counted for something for our children. That is what your father's "freakout" actions tell me.

Answer 4

a million. the two one among my youngsters have been born the week earlier father's day. So i grew to become into taken care of to the suitable present two times. 2. Took my previous guy on a fishing trip for father's day. He died six month's later. It grew to become into my final father's day present to him. 3. No I even have an significant assembly each and each month on the third Sunday. it constantly coincides with the numerous activities of that month. 4. Papa Howe could have been a large Dad. Took on league no longer common men interior the WHA whilst somebody might attempt to muscle out Mark and Marty. 5. Hal Ballard. He screwed over his very own youngsters whilst it got here to existence. purely think of what he might do to ersatz ones.

Answer 5

maybe u can go try talkin to him and finding out whats on his mind. then u might want to explain to him that u don't want it like that an that today is fathers day and u if u didn't anything to make him upset ur sorry. let him know that really freaked u out.

Answer 6

Um crazy much? lol not much u can do but wait for him to calm down..



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