Spanking memories from the 80's?

Question

I'm 27 and my parents were firm believers in spanking. Being a little tomboy, I earn plenty of spankin's. Spankings growing up were never anything more than maybe a dozen firm wacks across my bare butt with an open hand. No abuse. I always knew what I was in trouble for before I got spanked and (other than a stinging behind) all was well after. I hated getting spanked and I thought twice about doing something that might earn me a spankin'. Even though I grew up getting spanked on the bare butt, I turned out just fine. I think alot of kids today could use a good spankin'. So, those of you of the younger generation, how were you spanked growing up?

Answer 1

My mom use to carry in her purse a hair brush with the words "MOOD Changer" on the back side. When ever we were out in public and acted up she'd ask "Do you want me to use the mood changer?" If we didn't listen she would wisk us away to the closest bathroom or dressing room and tare us up! One time she was so mad at me that she yanked my pants down and I got it hard bare bottom I was probally 12 then, maybe I needed it. At home it was usually the fly swatter or her hand. I was spanked until 15, my last one I recieved was with the fly swatter up and down the backs of legs I had on shorts that day, it was summer I was outside with some friends and sassed her so she tore my legs up in front of everyone. Afterward I sat on my bed and kicked my legs on the sheets to take the sting out. Though that was not my only spanking that was witnessed by friends or other people. I got spanked in the wash house at the beach one summer too. That was a hand spanking when I was 13 my sister and I were trying to change and shower to go home and I smacked my sister in her face for bieng stupid. My sister ran crying to my mom and my mom yanked my towel off of me so quick and spun me around and tore my bare wet butt up with her hand. I was so embarrased by the age of 13 you are a young women by then.This was my most public spanking and my sister thought it was funny. I guess you get what you deserve huh?

Answer 2

Spanking Memories

Answer 3

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Spanking memories from the 80's?

I'm 27 and my parents were firm believers in spanking. Being a little tomboy, I earn plenty of spankin's. Spankings growing up were never anything more than maybe a dozen firm wacks across my bare butt with an open hand. No abuse. I always knew what I was in trouble for before I got spanked...

Answer 4

I was regularly spanked by both my mom and dad right up to the age 14. The worst thing was that it was always on the bare bottom. It was always my mom who pulled my knickers down. I don't think it would have been right for a father to take his daughter's knickers down. It was always a hand spanking and it really hurt. But I guess I deserved it. The worst spanking was in public when I received a bare bottom spanking in front of lots of people. Ill never forget that.

Answer 5

I think in today's society it is frowned upon due to the fact that alot of families abused their children and not many people did anything to protect the children back then. In my family I grew up with 7 kids. Each day we were spanked up to 4 times a day with a belt/board. My parents had no problem throwing us up against a wall, breaking dishes over our heads, and throwing a work boot at our heads. I disagree with this type of treatment of a child. However, every once in a while I feel that a child needs to have a spanking to get that child back on track. When I was growing up I heard a lot of stories of children who falsley accused their parents of abusing them--- This is why- we have parents scared today. It is good to have laws to protect children from abusive families. In my case -- I can say that the legal system was a bunch of crock -when I was growing up. Child protective services was there when you didn't want them but, when you needed them the most -they weren't there. The only thing that I'm greatful for is when they finally came out to take my father's big board away from him. The board that he had was about 3 inches thick and it was about an arm length long. On the board he drew a face and it said" ha-ha -ha- lightning will strike, Zap". He would use this on our bottoms. He replaced it with another one though. I feel that I grew up to be a great person and learned from my past. Today I have 3 step children which need to have a spanking but go without because-- I'm not going to put myself in a situation where they over exagerate the situation and put me in jail. I have 2 natural children that get a spanking maybe once in 8 months if any. I think spankings are sometimes neccessary but, not when they are done out of hate.

Answer 6

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To this day i thank my mom for her spanking me. I was afraid to join a gang, do drugs,get bad grades,lie, use profanity, be lazy and not show respect to the elderly.When my mom called us to come do something,we came by call # 2 because by call # 3.She used a hot wheel Track on our rear butts for showing her no respect. She didn't abuse us. It was called tough love.What she did was get us ready for the real world. So getting spanked was the best thing that happen to me and my siblings. Our kids were brought up the same way i was. They did the dumb things that they were not to do.They were whipped with the belt. I have no regrets at all. When any of my children and their friends got into trouble WE didn't run and rescue them. If the Dept of social services, child protection services and police would let us parents do our job in the home and back away these kids would show more respect to authority.But all these agencies have put fear into the parents. Instead of letting us parents do our jobs and belting our rude and wild kids for having no directions or focus in life. You all butted in and now your all over worked.The first school these kids learn from is called HOME.Oh and my kids have turned out to be positive people.

Answer 7

Did we have the same parents? I grew up in the 70s and 80s. I to got spanked on the bare bottom. Same as you, never abused, just hand spanked (about a dozen sharp spanks to the bottom). It didn't matter where we were either, if I tried anything bad in public I got it in public.



one of my more un-favorite memories was being about 6 years old, at the beach.

I was a day dreamer, when something got my attention I went with it. I started chasing some seagulls down the beach, then I started looking at the neat shells. One thing lead to another and I wondered far away (I really don't remember all of this, but when my parents tell the story, I was gone for like 30 minutes). When I got back I saw my mom and dad in a panic looking for me. My mom ran up to me and hugged me, I couldn't figure out what all the fuss was about, lol, what's wrong with these people, I had it all in control:):) Then my dad approached.



OK heres where my memory goes dim. I remember, my dad sitting in one of those popular beach chares from the 70s, then my memory flashes to being stark-naked-nude across his lap (had a one piece bathing suit, I don't even remember but I guess he just took it off) Before the spanking even started I remember looking out toward the water and seeing many on lookers walking by trying to look away but unable to hide there frightened faces for me. People always ask me if I was embarrassed, my reply:"HECK NO! I was more worried about my rear then people watching" I was spanked for a good long time that day, and I deserved every swat.



I agree with you, it seems a lot of kids I run into these days could do with a dose of good old fashioned spankings. However this type of punishment still exists in our home, my daughters will attest.

Answer 8

I was raised with "spankings" that hurt like anything but my parents always let us know they spanked us because they loved us.

I was spanked with wooden spoon when I was really little, and a belt or crop when I got a little bigger.



Today, I'm thankful for the discipline I recieved, and I know that I wouldn't be the same person today if they hadn't cared about me so much.

Answer 9

spanking memories 80

Answer 10

Yes, I was spanked with a home made wooden paddle. I don't remember getting to many spankings though. I listened most of the time and stayed out of trouble. I did not want to get a swat with that paddle. Yes, kids today could use a good spanking. For many years I worked at schools taking care of children. I stopped doing it because I was tired of dealing with the disrespect from the kids and the parents would do nothing to repremind them. Spare the rod,spoil the child.

Answer 11

I could probably count with one hand and still have some fingers left of the times I was spanked. I vaguely remember why, but I know I deserved it. My parents never hit me other than a little spank in my behind those times. many kids now a days deserved a spanking, but they have so many privileges now it's awful.

Answer 12

mine was similar. i believe in spanking (not abusing) little kids don't have the ability to understand bargaining and all that. my grandparents were spanked and my parents and so was i. i never got a spanking i didn't deserve and i am a better person for it.

Answer 13

Sometimes I got it with the hand or belt over my pants. Sometimes I'd get the hand or flyswatter with my butt bare...just depended how mom or dad felt. I deserved every spanking I got and they all hurt and I usually didn't do whatever I did get get my butt busted.

Answer 14

My Mom was the primary disciplinarian in our family and she believed in and gave a wicked spanking--she had a hairbrush and it was usually applied to our bare fannies. She wasn't one of those who say spanking should only be a "last resort"--it was used pretty liberally.



At times I used to suggest to her that other kids didn't get it on their bare backside. She had one of those "Mom Logic" answers "it wasn't your pants that misbehaved."



When I went to college the liberal psychology and education professors convinced me the whole thing was terrrible and I should probably be in a mental and psychological wreck. And the bare bottom part--that was per se child abuse.



After I had my own I learned my parents weren't so hopelessly old fashioned and ignorant as I had thought. I have a paddle specifically designed for this purpose.

Answer 15

sorry but a dozen firm wacks on the um deirie aired that is abuse.

i got some doozies, but no bare bottoms after like 13 and why bare bottom anyway? never understand that 1. i try not to use spankings until ive had a cooloff period because i did get some rough ones(we all do for the most).

but honestly i am a better man for it, we can only teach what we know, i know that 2x4's across the *** suck. so i talk myself crazy and ps im also at this point nonconfrontational to a point. ill fight, but id rather use my time a little wiser.

the worst i got was 5 swats for each chore undone(2x4). never mind what i did do which was clean house and cut grass and some other stuff. i got 25 that day. i felt like it wasnt worth even trying to do my chores. but hell im an almost no quit can do gogetter unless i work myself silly.(i broke the glass, tired of wondering,-_-_-_

Answer 16

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Answer 17

With a wooden spoon, ouch!