Would you find it strange?

Question

Would you find it strange that your sister is talking to your best friend on a daily basis and didn't tell you? Well that's what my sister does, and she know I been looking for my friend for years ten years to be exact. I know my friend has ask for my number but my sister is good at telling people I don't have a number .How do i confront her now that I know?

Answer 1

It's wonderful that you found your old friend! It's almost not worth the bother of confronting your sister. It sounds as though you two have had a strained relationship for quite some time or she would have told you about your friend. Her behavior was hurtful and mean and you can't undo that. What really matters now is that you have found your long lost friend. A decade is a long time to be apart. Many life changes have occurred for both of you so it is time to focus on reacquainting yourselves.

In this day and age of computers, finding someone is not that difficult with websites such as anywho.com, whitepages.com, classmates.com, etc. Even finding a friend's family member (mother/father/grandparents) on these sites can lead to a reunion of old friends.

There are many reasons your sister may have kept your whereabouts a secret. Whether she would tell you the truth is highly doubtful. Let your anger go. Don't let her behavior infringe on the joy of finding your friend. Take the highroad and ignore her and her behavior.

Answer 2

How can you have a best friend for 10 years? Your not that old.

Answer 3

just ask her. she's your sister. as mentioned above, don't jump to conclusions, but ask her nicely and seriously and tell her that you know whats up and what you would like to know is why she did it.

Hope it helps. Good luck.

Answer 4

yeah but don't Jump in conclusion..maybe it's something else u missed..



well i think you should be honest with her..and tell her what you really want to tell her..just be honest and face the whole matter away...

Answer 5

that is strange,she may be jealous of you.