Being the uglier sister? :(?

Question

Well my eldest has always been the thinnest and me and the middle sister were always chubby as kids.
Now the eldest remains the thinnest and the middle one has now grown into her body fully (she is16) and she has like the perfect body. AMAZING curves, tiny waste, nice long hair and I just remain stumpy. I have gone on dietts and have lost weight but even if I do I still have no shape, I have a little waist but not much, I dont have an hour glass figure or curvy hips.
I dont want to complaiin too much but I just feel like the youngest, uglier sister, I am the one with the uglier face too.
My eldest said to me "yeah she's got a great figure" and my middle sister even admitted she knew she was the prettiest sister.
It just makes me really sad because my middle sister can be really mean sometimes, she knows she is the prettiest and she is really stubborn. I dont want to be mean but I just feel like she doesn't deserve her body.
How can I deal with being the uglier sister? I dont have much money to do or buy anything (my sisters are really rich though).
Please help? sorry for complaining:(

Answer 1

Don't do anything, your beautiful just the way you are, don't let others looks change your opinion on yours, just as long as your happy looks don't matter, there are a lot of guys out there that don't care what the girl looks like, they care if there happy and funny, and you are some day going to make one of those guys happy ( there the only ones worth it ) <3

Answer 2

Hey, don't be sorry for seeking help! This is what yahoo answers is for! :)



Your probably not ugly; most people think they are ugly. It's usually a self esteem problem. Firstly, I recommend you do some workouts to tone up or some form of exercise regularly which you enjoy e.g. swimming, dancing, running... It will make you feel better and happier about yourself and you will also tone up and look better.



Secondly, I recommend you get a new haircut which suits your face (ask your hairdresser for advice) and try different hairstyles every day. Wear clothes that flatter your figure too. You have to make the effort to look good an then you are half way there. The other half of looking good is smiling and feeling positive.



You may feel that you are uglier, but beauty is not a fact. 'My sister is more beautiful than me' is an opinion. '1 add 1 equals 2' is a fact. So when they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, it may sound cheesy and stupid, but it's true. If you don't believe me, look at all the girls who fancy one direction and justin bieber. Why do some girls go crazy for them and others dont? Why do some people prefer robert patterson? Haha.



Don't try and look like your sister. You are your own person. Play up your own good features that give you a quirky edge.



Hope this helped :)

Answer 3

The reason this all feels badly to you is because you pay way too much attention to it. You are so consumed in thought about someone else instead of just finding ways to be happy for yourself. You, or anyone else, shouldn't ever compare yourself to others. This frenzy being the reason why.

Focus instead on the good things about yourself and you will notice that you begin feeling better. Every time that you see your reflection from now on tell yourself that you are the most important person in your life and that feeling good is your only goal. When you get bothered again I want you to take two deep breaths and as you exhale say the word "RELEASE" and let your muscles relax and calm down. Remember who you are....the most important person in your life, then let it all go. You can do it. You have more control over your life than you think.

Answer 4

Look you are the youngest so that means you're at the most 15 so you are still growing into your body even if you don't have curves or the nicest body, that is just physical attributes. Does it matter more if you are the prettiest of the bunch if you have a crappy personality or if you are just average looking but smart and with a great personality? Don't look through your eyes look through the eyes of others, because when we look through our own we always see what's wrong with us and never the positive

Answer 5

Rule one of society, you are not allowed to say if you are ugly or not. I have dated people all over the weight and height tables. I have dated a scrawny girl who was 6 foot, to a relitively large girl at 6 foot to a girl a 4 foot 10 and a girl at 5 foot 6. It really doesnt matter what you look like, maybe to some people, but not to that one person. I talked to a girl on the phone who i had never seen or even a picture of for 3 years. I saw here and she was not my type, but i knew her and i didnt want to leave her. I garentee you are not "ugly". Thats just a word that was accidently put into the dictionary because they didnt have a antonym for the word what you are, beautifull.

Answer 6

Sorry, you're not going to like this, but you are your own worst enemy... you just moan and winge and whine about 'poor me', and complain that they are richer, prettier etc... and say even the cat doesn;t like you... I mean, are you SERIOUSLY saying your cat looks at you and thinks 'oh, she's not pretty, she's not rich, so I won't have anything to do with her??' NO!! It's just that you are on such a downer all the time, and I think you enjoy it... you love the 'poor little me, cinderella''. You say your sisters are really rich... how? one of them is only 16... so how?? work?? whats stopping you from doing the same? I can hear you right now making excuses, when you can do as much as them... you say you go on diets blah blah.... but it sounds like you are overweight again..whose fault is that?? Your sisters, the cat, the man on the moon? No, YOURS. Your attitude is your biggest problem.

Answer 7

Give yourself time sweetheart ever heard of the ugly duckling I am making a bet with you in a couple of years you will be every bit as nice as your sisters.

I was a bit of a pudding then all of a sudden the puppy fat fell off and I was suddenly a swan but I was about 18.lol

Answer 8

you need to stop comparing yourself to your sisters and learn to love yourself for who you are. If you think you are ugly, and refuse to be told otherwise, then how can anyone else see you as beautiful? You've got some self esteem issues girl, your sisters may be mean, but all sisters are. The only one who can solve this is you, and you don't have to change yourself or aspire to have surgery or whatever. Learn to love yourself, confidence is the most attractive quality in a woman.

Answer 9

Dont call yourself ugly because you seem really pretty from the inside and show your sister that you are happy in your looks and that it is none of her buisness always remind yourself that you are pretty and maybe when you growup you will be the prettiest of all and there is lots of people who will want you i think chubby is cute :-)

Answer 10

Don't change yourself just because you THINK you are ugly .try not to care so much. Look in the mirror and say I Am Pretty inside and out .