My parents and grandparents are too dominating?

Question

I am a 25 yr old guy and my parents n granparnts are too dominating.They thnk anythng new is bad,be it friends,gadgets ,clothes or food.I am suffocating here.what can i do?they also dont let me take my own decisions and treat me like a kid..Whats more,they dont let me make friends.Im ttired of trying to convince them that at 25,one is not a kid anymore.What do i do?

Answer 1

I'm kind of wandering why you still live at home at age 25? Most people have moved out way before that. But to answer your question, wheher you live their or not, you are an adult. It's not up to them to cut the apron strings, it's up to you. Perhaps in their minds because you are still living there, they still see you as a kid. Or it could be you just come form a controlling family, there are families like that. But in the end it's up to you to let them know in no certain terms, you are an adult, and while you appreciate their love and concern, you need to make your own decisions. They may never change, you may just have to leave. Check out my article on Controlling and Dysfunctional Familes, maybe it will help in some way.

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/401803/5_types_of_controlling_and_dysfunctional.html?cat=72

Answer 2

As a non-kid 25 year old guy, wth are you doing still living with your parents? Seriously, by the time they are your age a lot of guys have been working for years, possibly at their own company, have a wife and a couple of kids to worry about. If you don't want to be treated as a kid, perhaps it's time to stop acting like one. So, to answer your question: 1. Get a job 2. Get an apartment 3.Get a life

I hope that this helps. Good luck.

Answer 3

1st of all, maybe you think parents can talk anyway they see fit each day. Turns out many parents are abusers. Actually they are not trying to be tough to make you responsible- they are tricking you. This goes for people at school as well. Words are abuse also.



Hurting people control/hurt others. It's not you. They are the ones who have a problem. People/parents do mean things- ignore/abandon to control. They just want the reaction so they can get high feel good from it. You have to look at the agenda. Abuse is anything and words that are not uplifting. So forget what truth is being used right then. Remember -THEY are sick and get high on being mean, and thats why they do it. They are wrong about everything. The abuser is close-minded, self-righteous and was also abused themself.



The parents abuse can make children react with all types of so called mental Illnesses- painful but not a real disease - includes all OCD, BP ETC.



Psychiatrists commit fraud in that there is no medical science in what they do. They do not draw blood to test for imbalances. For chemical imbalances no test exists. There is no conception of what a correct chemical balance would look like to date. People in the FDA agree. I have links for this.



After abuse, drugs or witchcraft, all types mental sickness can be a spiritual problem - Jesus name is needed to banish what is there..



Google- "Inside the Mind of an Abuser" http://www.googobits.com/articles/2446-inside-the-mind-of-an-abuser-what-you-need-to-know.html-See how it works and be free...Google "self righteous"



God wants you to know truth, forgive, and get away from them. Read many many sites under "emotional abuse" and "dealing with bullies".



Source--Seeing people overcome this --Talk to me for help. Clik my name.



You cant change people- read and get away....