Every time I look at my sister, especially in a bathing suit, blood rushes to my penis uncontrollably. Is this some mental disorder I have, or is that normal?
Eight answers:
Saracha
2011-03-16 21:41:38 UTC
nope perfectly normal
qris
2011-03-17 04:48:53 UTC
It's normal. Guys with sisters go through this and it's a pretty long phase unfortunately. As long as you don't try anything with her you should be fine. Mentally this should tell you the type of girl that you find attractive will have similar personality and physical qualities to your sister. If your sister's friends are old enough to date and are in a good age range for you then you might see if she has a problem with you dating her friends. They'll be the ones most like your sister.
Don't worry about it unless you become obsessed with your sister or she is inappropriately young for you. At that point you need to stop and change your thinking. A lot of guys go through a phase where they find their mothers attractive, that is even weirder and harder to handle. Typical males will have fantasies or responses to sisters, mothers, grandmothers (I know weird), teachers, cousins, friends, babysitters and parents friends. Even male twins of girls have been known to get excited by their own twin. As long as you do not obsess over your relatives then you should be fine. Also try to avoid being creepy by staring too long at anyone or looking up their skirts. it happens but try to avoid it.
?
2011-03-17 04:47:08 UTC
Well I don't got a brother, and I never heard of that.. But I think it's fine.
I mean it's a girl, if she's pretty, then that's the reason why. Can't help getting hard from seeing an attractive girl in a bikini, no matter who she is.
If I had a hot brother, I think I would have some sort of thoughts of him. Wouldn't carry on with that though, I do have a boyfriend and that is illegal.. right?
Zach K
2011-03-17 04:50:51 UTC
We can't control our thoughts and only have the ones we find acceptable, and if we could, life would be really boring. All you have control over is your actions. Any thought, no matter how socially unacceptable, is fine, as long as you have the good sense not to act on them.
Bon Ryan
2011-03-17 04:46:45 UTC
Of course its normal...its human behaviour...i know you guys are related but shes female..if shes a male then you are homosexual..which is also normal.
anonymous
2011-03-19 23:17:44 UTC
Umm... You need to get a girlfriend. (Your feelings are perfectly normal but don't encourage and act on it).
Animal Lover <3
2011-03-17 05:03:37 UTC
It depends.... Are you like DANG!!! MY SISTER IS SMOKIN SEXY!!!! or are you like DANG!!!! BOOBS ARE GREAT! First one... Yeah kinda weird. Second one.... Nah perfectly normal.
?
2011-03-17 04:51:30 UTC
yeah dude,a little odd.but it is what it is.
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