Being the uglier sister? :(?

Question

Well my eldest has always been the thinnest and me and the middle sister were always chubby as kids.
Now the eldest remains the thinnest and the middle one has now grown into her body fully (she is16) and she has like the perfect body. AMAZING curves, tiny waste, nice long hair and I just remain stumpy. I have gone on dietts and have lost weight but even if I do I still have no shape, I have a little waist but not much, I dont have an hour glass figure or curvy hips.
I dont want to complaiin too much but I just feel like the youngest, uglier sister, I am the one with the uglier face too.
My eldest said to me "yeah she's got a great figure" and my middle sister even admitted she knew she was the prettiest sister.
It just makes me really sad because my middle sister can be really mean sometimes, she knows she is the prettiest and she is really stubborn. I dont want to be mean but I just feel like she doesn't deserve her body.
How can I deal with being the uglier sister? I dont have much money to do or buy anything (my sisters are really rich though).
Please help? sorry for complaining:(

Answer 1

You've no reason to be sorry for complaining and asking for help. (-:

Seeking out comfort is what you should do if you're in a situation you're uncomfortable with and unknowing of. More often than not, complaints and concerns towards oneself are seeds being planted that have the possibility of helping you grow and bloom into the person you want and desire to be.

Anyway, you sound quite young. If the middle sibling is only 16, I can't imagine you to be very old... Now your body shape is what you are most worried about. At your age, while your body is still developing, diets and starvation will do absolutely nothing but hinder your growth.

If you allow your body to grow to its fullest height, and eat well, you will obtain the curves you crave. It's a fact, 70% of what your body looks like is dependant on what you eat, whilst only 10% is determined by exercising. (The other 10% factors into other random fields)

This doesn't mean you have to diet. Just maintain a balanced nutrition, with 5 meals per day. (Portions are usually too largely made due to the traditional 3 meals per day. It's a scientific fact that 5 small-medium sized meals are much better on the body and mind.)

Furthermore, because you're young and still growing, you will more than likely follow your middle sister's development pattern and your 'chubby' body well mature into curves.

You mention you've a small waist. DO YOU KNOW HOW LUCKY YOU ARE? That's a great asset! It proves your body has the ability to be very voluptuous. (;

You don't need to money to become pretty, (though I can't lie, it does help) all you need is the determination to become who you want to be.

Remember, the first 17ish years of a girl's appearance DRAMATICALLY changes due to over-active and raging hormones.

During the 8th grade, I was notorious for being the class nerd. Glasses, shaggy clothing, messy and boring hair that framed a freckle invested face. No boy ever liked me. I was small and scrawny.

But now I'm 17, going into my senior year of high school and I've changed to the point of no resemblance to my younger self. I now model for multiple different clothing lines, and have had both boys and men ask me out on dates.

My self esteem used to be dangerously low, and because of this my older sister would use it to her advantage. Please don't let your siblings have power over you. Look into a mirror and tell yourself you've so much potential to be beautiful, just like your sisters. And you've got the heart to match it. (-:

Answer 2

Don't worry about it! Anyone can call you fat, skinny, chubby, anorexic, but your just unique. Enjoy life, and don't let your worries get to you. Life isn't about having the looks and figures, it's about trying new things, opportunities and meeting different people. If you are doing this to impress a boy, well, the right boy will only come to you for your personality and not your looks. And when you say your sister doesn't deserve those looks, that's a bit harsh isn't it? I mean, through a lot of girls these days, if they like their looks, they take advantage on it. And other girls who don't, feel bad, when they shouldn't - they're just as better. And I think I mentioned this before as well, but life isn't all about looks, there are other things to do in life. And I am pretty sure that you are NOT ugly. You don't need to buy anything, just take care of yourself, don't eat too much sugary foods, exercise regularly, take your 5-a-day, etc. You should do all of the basic things to keep healthy and there is no need to go on a diet. Your fine. And your certainly not ugly. Do you want to know why? Everyone is beautiful in their own way - because God makes no mistakes. Hope this helped! xoxo

Answer 3

Please listen to my advice.

I do not mean to be rude at all, but this happens in life. There's a point in which someone is a lower level than the other. For example, I had the eyesight of -5.00 when I was only twelve, and I was forced to wear glasses, plus I had acne at a very young age. Of course, I did not want to have any of this. Another reason why I am 'imperfect' is because I have twenty different food allergies. Can you believe that? Twenty! And some people are perfect and have perfect eyes and perfect health. So I can understand you.



Sometimes we feel bad about ourselves. We think that "Oh, why me?" and "I hate myself!" But after all that, I tell myself that there's someone out there fighting to survive. Either a sickly, starving child in Africa, crawling, searching for food, or a young girl with no hair who is battling cancer. I look back at my situation, and compare it. I sound like a whiny little kid. But I have lots of good things, too. I have a nice family, a nice warm house, and nice warm clothes. I should be glad of those things.



So yeah. I compare myself to someone in a lower level and tell myself that I'm not too terrible. I hope that helps. I know, I sound really stupid, but that's just what I do. And, I know this saying is cheesy, but everyone is perfect. It doesn't matter what's in the outside. Maybe someone out there in the world is really ugly and everyone looks down on him, but he may have a big heart and donate a lot. That's just an example.



The next time you think you're ugly, PLEASE, please think about those kids who have ribs sticking out and crawling for food, and those kids who are fighting cancer and have not a strand of hair.

Answer 4

Aww, well, this won't help very much but everyone is beautiful including YOU! Personally, a real beautiful person would be amazing inside their heart (sounds cheesy :P) sounds like your sister is too...self centered. That doesnt make her pretty inside, and when your not pretty inside, you look horrible on the outside. Maybe....try makeup if allowed to, change your hairstyle, look up things on youtube like, {how to get skin that glows, or how to get healthy shiny hair} << you can use stuff that you already have at home to do what i put in the brackets. Seems confusing but im sure your beautiful(: you could wait it out and see how you'll look like in a few years, remove any stress as stress can make you look like crap sometimes, there are lots of things you can do to be prettier. But if you're kind hearted inside then your looks could transform into something awesome. You could smile alot as it makes you look more attractive. Lots of things(:

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Answer 6

Listen.

You're probably the maturest out of them, like you think mature, etc. You're not the one who's going around calling people fat, short, ugly, tall, anorexic or anything else. You're being good. That's better than looking good.

And You're probably still quite young; you've still got a way to go until you've finished growing. Just don't make any modifications yet, you'll probably regret it later. Instead, wait it out until you're older, i.e. 27.

Just hang in there, and wait for it to come =)

Answer 7

Do you remember the story of the ugly duckling becoming a beautiful swan? Yup, you are still growing, you have not catch up yet with your sisters ages. Hang in there, your turn to shine will be soon

Answer 8

Time will tell, my dear friend.



Your sisters need to realize that you will also reach their level once you're mature. Although, be happy that you're beautiful inside.

Answer 9

don't be so harsh. guessing your under 16 you still have time for your body to blossom. i'm sutre you'll be a lovely looking girl. just take care of yourself and let nature take its course *hug*

Answer 10

maybe you will grow into your body like your others sister, anyways personality is more important

Answer 11

dont worry you are still young....go online and find some exercises to grow your hips if that is one of your problems....and good luck