how can i break my parents up?

Question

okay, first listen to my story because theres more to it than youd think. i'm 14, and...

my
mom
is
a
*****.
and she's not actually even my real mom. my real mmom n my dad divorced when i was 3 but this "stepmom" has been mom for as long is i can remember so i call her mom. she's a ***** n a ****! a few weeks ago my friend lexy invited me to a party and i was gonna go. but no my ***** mom wouldnt let me she said there wont be any parents n yada yada. so i snuck out. and her parents WE'RE there but they left halfway through. there was drinkin and yada yada and my stupid-*** mom grounded me for a WHOLE STUPID WEEK! she took away my phone and would only let me get online for an hour a day. also she reads my texts. i have a boyfriend whose 19 and in college and my mom somehowww found out about him sorta so shes all supecious and ALWAYS reading my texts from him to find out. i know i shouldnt lie to her but its NONE OF HER BUSINNESS! shes always takin away my stuff and always grounding me and shes such a fat STUPID *****! sometimes i literally wish she was dead and my dad doesnt even love her. and she thinks shes all smart jus tb/c she's an insurance brokor... i hate her and i want to break my parents up... how can i do it?

edit: LOL "the parent trap" just came on TV!!!

Answer 1

Be careful what you wish for. Your kids (if lucky) may want to break you and your husband (if lucky) up. So watch yourself. Karma catches up with people.

Answer 2

You're not gonna like this answer and it's gonna sound very cliche, but you're very lucky to have a parent like that who actually gives a crap where you are and what you're doing. If she didn't, not only would you have a whole slew of emotional issues because you would crave structure and caring, but you would most likely be on drugs, pregnant, or in jail before you're even out of your teens. I know it absolutely sucks to be grounded and I know that you can't see it now but (here comes another cliche...) you're going to realize later on when you're older that she's doing you a huge favor by stopping behavior that is potentially dangerous for you. As parents, most of our rules are not that hard and they are designed only with love for you guys so just try harder to follow them and you will so just how easy life gets.



Oh yeah, and don't ever try to break anyone up, no matter who it is. Those are lives that you are messing with and that is a decision which is totally up to them.

Answer 3

This is very disturbing to me. So let me get this right you want your parents to separate because your Mom cares enough to discipline you? You are very selfish. You should be thankful that a woman cares for you like her daughter and wants the best for you. I lost my mother and father at a very young age, and I grew up with the desire to have parents in my life. You have your parents and yet you want to break up your home. I suggest you grow the **** up and be careful for what you wish for. You wishing death on another human being is down right evil.

Answer 4

Don't try to break them up because you want to do wrong. You know you had no business sneaking out or dating a 19 year old. Why destroy their marriage for your own SELFISH motives.



You are a typical teenager and she is a typical mother. Her actions seem to be reactions to your behavior. Stop the behavior and she will stop her reactions. Breaking up your fathers marriage is SELFISH.



You should be glad she care enough about you to not want you killed at some party, raped at some party, pregnant by the 19 year old molester, etc. etc. She CARES about you.

Answer 5

This is coming from another teenager. GROW UP! I haven't been a perfect person, but I was never a big brat like you. So she said that you couldn't go to a party, BIG DEAL! She had every right to ground you. YOU'RE the one that snuck out! Like I said, I was never perfect and my mother and I fought A LOT, but I knew when I was wrong and I never acted like a big baby like you are right now.

Answer 6

Just from the way you type I can tell you're too young to be drinking so yeah she was right.

Answer 7

seriously, grow up!

you do something wrong, you get in trouble..thats life.



you'll look back and laugh one day, stop giving her a hard time & be thankful you have someone who cares that much!

Answer 8

... She's being strict because she cares weather you accept it or not. OH NO, YOU GOT GROUNDED FOR DOING SOMETHING WRONG, WHAT A CRUEL STEPMOTHER!!