i hate my boyfriends sister. please help!?

Question

i hate my boyfriends sister. please help!?

Answer 1

Boyfriend reported the sister's behavior to mom and mom said that's how sister is?



Stay away from the sister as much as possible since her behavior is toxic. That way you can limit the poison to small dosages at a time.



If you later learn that bf is a momma's boy, then you don't want him either.

Answer 2

I Hate My Boyfriends Sister

Answer 3

Girl same sitch here im 20 my man 24 his sister is older by 2yrs she a pain in are *** tho when ever we hang out she dnt talk to me on him and when he does talk to me she rolls her eyes one day i got mad n told her go home. He agreed not only that the ***** is 26 and has 2 kids. And she want to do every thing with him. And he dnt want her there cuz she crazy. And over emtion one day on are annv we told her she could nt go with us to a movie and dinner she cryed and then slashed are tires.

Answer 4

Look........the only one capable of dealing with this situation is your boyfriend becoz the problem is in his family. I understand that his sister pushes you over the edge but don't do anything stupid to ruin your relationship. His sister may not have a good relationship with him but she shouldn't take it out on you. Sit down with your Bf(on a day you both are in a playfull mood) and tell him everything that's been happening. If he respects you enough, he will have a serious talk with his family.

Answer 5

I guess you don't want that kind of sister in law in the future ,so break up.

Even though she'll win the game by making you break up with your bf, it isn't fair for your bf to not try to do anything about this situation.

If he really tried to make his sister like you, he should have talked to her and should have TRIED to get her to talk to you.

I know it would be hard ,but he needs to be on your side if you want to fight her ,but shince he won't help, just break up so you won't meet her ever again.

She got some problems, tweeting about you? seriously ? that is crossing the line even more.

She is asking you to break up with him ,so it is her fault and your unconsiderate bf's fault for your relationship so, break up unless your bf is tries to change his sister.



personally, I would not want to be part of their family at all.

the mother only cares about her daughter and not about her disrespectful behavior and rude sister.

also, unconsidrate bf who throws his gf's cry for help to his own mom instead of doing it himslef.

Answer 6

just go and talk to her, and try and sort you problems out. Go and talk to her in a clm way, tell her you have nothing against and that you really like her brother, and that he means a lot to you, also that you want to be friends with her. Try it and see what happens. if worse comes to worse just meet up outside his house like at a mall.

Answer 7

Is she bisexual? It kinda sounds like a jealousy thing, like maybe she has a crush on you and doesn't like you with him, or maybe his ex gf is close friends with her? idk sounds strange. Don't allow her to win. The minute she knows she is getting to you............. SHE WINS.

Answer 8

I can completely relate to this I'm your age and basically went through something similar, if i were you i would confront her not in like a mean way but in a calm way so she doesn't get an attitude with you. tell her how you feel and ask her why she does it, I'm sure if she is put on the spot by YOU she will let you know what's up. if it doesn't work and it continues I don't know maybe you should then discuss it with your boyfriend again.

Answer 9

talk to her and her family.

Answer 10

Oh yeah you should start completely ignoring her. Just stick to yourself when your around her.

Answer 11

Are you out of your mind?



His sister is his sister. She does not need to acknowledge you because she very likely does have her own issues to deal with. What do you think his family will do? Choose you over her? Are you kidding? Would your mother choose a total stranger over one of her children? Of course not. You are only his girlfriend. Chances are slim to none that you will ever be anything else and there are many more "girlfriends" going to be introduced to his family in the future. That will never change the fact that he has a sister, a mother a father and possibly other siblings.



No one can force his sister to "like" you. You are not part of her family and chances are you won't be around for long anyway.



Quit acting as if the world only revolves around you. It doesn't. Most likely your behavior will end up costing you this relationship. After all... his sister isn't going to go away... but you are just one of many.

Answer 12

To be honest she is 17 at her stage of being a 17 year old girl. Plus she's over protective with her brother. You might not see it but that's how she's reacting. talk to her take her out shopping or dinner. You can't tell your boyfriend to do it. You have to do it. Cause if he's the one that goes and confront her she's going to hate you even more.

Personally he it was me I wouldn't let it bother me if his parents is OK with you then your good