How to prove to my mom that I'm not a sl*t?

Question

Ok, So I'm turning twelve in a month and I want a nose stud, which I can pay for myself. I ask my mom about it and she's like "Yeah ok whatever." Then I ask again and she goes all ape crap on me like "WHAT ELSE DO YOU WANT? A BOYFRIEND? YOU JUST WANT TO LOOK SLEAZY AND YOURE A FOLLOWER." and before she went to sleep, which was like 15 minutes ago, this is the goodnight I get , "Youre a sl*t and trashy. You don't know when to stop. Sl*tty low class. I'm not putting you back in school because you'll be worse then you already are(Im homeschooled.)" What she means by "You just want more" is I sometimes buy fake peircings and where them, BIG PHUCKING WOOP. And I dyed my hair a few times but she lets me and sometimes she forces me to bleach strands in it. I have friends who dye their hair like every month, who r younger den me. And ones who have peircings who are 13. Why cant she understand I'm not a sl*t and It's just something I like and want? Obviously it's a horemonal faze, she had 1 to wen she was a lil older.

Answer 1

A pierecing does NOT make you a sl*t! A sl*t is some who goes around having s*x wit every guy she sees and cheats on her boyfriend. Just don't let her bring you down, because all she wants to do is make you feel like crap because she's miserable with how crappy her life turned out to be. Don't let her see you upset cause that kinda thing will only make her happy. Don't let her get any reaction out of you.

Answer 2

People/parents tear you down to build themselves up- Think about this for awhile. Words are not said to help you at all. Its only a trick to make abusers/parents feel good. When people are sick they say mean things to feel better. This goes for people at school as well.



Abusers use put downs, ignoring or hitting. You are tricked and thats why you feel bad. Abusers lie and have lies mixed with past truths other times. They have problems so its not your fault. Hurting people hurt others and were abused themselves.



Divorce, father gone, abuse, ignoring can make children grow up with all types of so called "Mental Problems" or turn them into abusers. Know mean people often are calling you names of mental disorders to abuse you. The "Chemical Imbalance" claim is false. It has been thoroughly discredited by researchers. There is No test for imbalances..-Quakery exposed. " Its total fraud" -- Dr. Fred Baughman Neurologist.



Live away from all abusers verbal or physical and never go back. Dont speak to them. They will never change unless forced.



Remember- Read 20 sites daily on Emotional Abuse- also Tell your teacher.



God wants you to Forgive- which does not require talking to them again- Call Child Protective Services transitional housing to age 21.



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Answer 3

i think your home schooled because your mum wants the best for you and to be honest you are a little bit too young for a nose piercing you are 11 - my mum would never let me get a piercing at that age

maybe try waiting till your at least 15 and she will respect your decision,

chin up and just ignore her negativity and show her how mature you are for your age then by your birthday she might consider it.

Answer 4

You can't lie to your Mom about this stuff because she remembers back to how much of a whore she was at your age.



Probably she was every bit as bad as you are.



She knows your tricks, she knows your lies.

Answer 5

your way to young to be doing all this your still a child!

if i was your mum i would do the same 12 is to young to have a noes stud or your hair dyed

Answer 6

Stop being such a sheep and trying to be cool.