Girls...please give your answers why would u react this way..?

Question

'' If a guy proposes a girl THE DAY BEFORE HER
MARRIAGE, then the girl says him that she loves him
but
only as a friend. She says him to stay as good
friends as always. He then says ok i will be friends
but plz give me sometime to be alone and keep no
contacts with the girl so that he can get rid o f his
feeelings of love for her. IF HE KEEPS HIS
FRIENDSHIP, HIS FEELINGS WILL ALSO STAY WHICH
WILL CAUSE HER TO SUFFER IN HER MARRIED LIFE. he
wants time to get a new girl to love , theN HE CAN be just friends with her.
Now girl tells she doesnt want to give him the
time........why does that girl say so?.......................
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Better way the girl could have told ' u can have time if u need to' that
ends all controversies. But the Q is still lurking, if she
doesnt want to give the guy the time, then what she wants
him to do? Keep on loving her all the time??

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(I have a feeling, she was FORCED into this marriage. Why i say that is coz the entire process of the bridegroom meeting the girl and the date of fixing the marriage took in 30 days and the marriage was set for 60 days after that. The boy is good, no doubt, but u dont choose a life partner just like that.
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Anyways, i cant say her these thngs to her now coz she is now already married, and my saying these to her will have a bad impact in her mind as long as she lives.)..
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I know its time to move on, but i just cant bear the thought of leaving my sweetheart behind with some unknown people and she pleading me to remain friends all this time.
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My Q- why she doesnt give me the time to forget her as a lover? Is this for friendship or for love, plz dont confuse? If it is for friendship, i told her i am always her friend. Or does she love me too and cant say that to me coz she is married?

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Answer 1

start a journal they have been the way for thousands of years, write what you;'d say to her get it all out of your system.



Then start with your daily life keeping your mind occupied will help as you give yourself time to heal plus you will gain yourself as a friend in the process which will give you confidence.



try on line dating at least that way you will have someone to do things with and you never know it is the new way of meeting someone new

Answer 2

Cut all the contacts with that girl. I know it will be damn difficult but not impossible. That girl is either immature or just want someone to love her for her sake of happiness. As she is already married this will give nothing more than pain to both of you. So just move on and cut all contacts. After sometime you both get rid of this pain and everything will be fine

Answer 3

why you and this stupid girl make this all complicated?



my answer to the girl - just start a new life!



my answer to you- get a new lover,get rich,get marry,and forget everything about the past.